I offer myself as sacrifice
do what you will.
i was recently told that i "have quite the boy following." also, by an entirely different person that i "break men everywhere." the first statement was then followed by a lengthy discussion in which my physical behavior was addressed. as im sure many of you have noticed, i am a very physical person. not in a grody way, but in the sense that if you let me, i will cuddle with you, or hold your hand , or play with your hair, etc. it was stated that my "boy following" (is this for real? does it seriously exist?) may stem from this physicality and that if i perhaps stopped being so physical, the number of people liking me would diminish.
however it should be noted that the things i do that cause a number of people to call me a flirt and a tease are things that i do not view as flirting. in all honesty, in my eyes, holding hands with someone is not a way of flirting. A way of communication? Absolutely. i am not saying that it cannot be a way flirting, but more often than not, when i hold someone's hand it is because that person is my friend and i would like to express that i love him or her, and i firmly believe that actions speak louder than words.
it is for this reason that i pose to you a question. do you suggest that i keep my cuddly ways, or should i cease all cuddle action as soon as possible? keep in mind that when im around someone who i think will allow me to cuddle, it is automatic instinct to do so. because of this, should i decide to try to change, i would have to continuously watch my actions, because i no longer have any idea what's flirting and what isn't
also, for the record i have almost no perception of "awkward," so something that might make you very uncomfortable may have no effect on me. therefooooore, if you are uncomfortable with the hand-holding and general cuddling, please let me know
ok...i guess that's it. i dont even know how many of you will read this. so i think i'll x-post to facebook....
i was recently told that i "have quite the boy following." also, by an entirely different person that i "break men everywhere." the first statement was then followed by a lengthy discussion in which my physical behavior was addressed. as im sure many of you have noticed, i am a very physical person. not in a grody way, but in the sense that if you let me, i will cuddle with you, or hold your hand , or play with your hair, etc. it was stated that my "boy following" (is this for real? does it seriously exist?) may stem from this physicality and that if i perhaps stopped being so physical, the number of people liking me would diminish.
however it should be noted that the things i do that cause a number of people to call me a flirt and a tease are things that i do not view as flirting. in all honesty, in my eyes, holding hands with someone is not a way of flirting. A way of communication? Absolutely. i am not saying that it cannot be a way flirting, but more often than not, when i hold someone's hand it is because that person is my friend and i would like to express that i love him or her, and i firmly believe that actions speak louder than words.
it is for this reason that i pose to you a question. do you suggest that i keep my cuddly ways, or should i cease all cuddle action as soon as possible? keep in mind that when im around someone who i think will allow me to cuddle, it is automatic instinct to do so. because of this, should i decide to try to change, i would have to continuously watch my actions, because i no longer have any idea what's flirting and what isn't
also, for the record i have almost no perception of "awkward," so something that might make you very uncomfortable may have no effect on me. therefooooore, if you are uncomfortable with the hand-holding and general cuddling, please let me know
ok...i guess that's it. i dont even know how many of you will read this. so i think i'll x-post to facebook....