Celebrated Mom's birthday early
Technically it's tomorrow but my brother and his wife could be here today with pizza. And the ability to make me feel like I SO don't matter. It's the weird thing. He doesn't do this when we're at his place but here, every damn time. Let's see I was told my opinion wasn't the only one and didn't matter. And then with Dad, I hear the words 'let's agree to disagree' come out of Dad's mouth. Blinks with me he never says that. He will research for hours on line to prove me wrong (and heaven help me if I did get a detail wrong) and my opinions are always wrong. We never get to be on opposite sides with respect so my only conclusion is something is inherently wrong with me in their eyes.
I'm also pretty furious that Mom has invited Prejudice Girl and her Hateful Husband to damn near everything this holiday. I'm hoping they won't be here tomorrow like they were meant to (because Prejudice Girl is sick (For the newcomers to my blog, PG is the daughter of my parent's best friends but has NONE of their kindness and good hearts (and her mom is gone now so she's like hooked up wiht my mom as a second mom). My parents DO NOT believe me about the horrible things I've heard these two say about gays, blacks, jews, name it, they hate it and oddly they ARE good to my parents but I hate them and in this friendship over the last decade my parents have gotten insanely conservative (they've been democrats my whole life until these two).
I'm angry that they want me to spend Mom's birthday with them, Christmas Day, the day after Christmas, another day next week and potentially New Year's Eve. It's insane. They know how I feel so you can see where I rate. Because of course I'm exaggerating things because those two are republicans and I hate all republicans. Blinks. I don't hate people based on political party. I hate them for the things they do and say.
But it's up to me. I don't have to go to Christmas Day or the day after dinner. So I can be with people I hate or be alone on Christmas.
On the bright side, I cleaned up my remix fic and finished three more projects for
fandom_stocking now to start on some
12_daysofficmas stories
I'm also pretty furious that Mom has invited Prejudice Girl and her Hateful Husband to damn near everything this holiday. I'm hoping they won't be here tomorrow like they were meant to (because Prejudice Girl is sick (For the newcomers to my blog, PG is the daughter of my parent's best friends but has NONE of their kindness and good hearts (and her mom is gone now so she's like hooked up wiht my mom as a second mom). My parents DO NOT believe me about the horrible things I've heard these two say about gays, blacks, jews, name it, they hate it and oddly they ARE good to my parents but I hate them and in this friendship over the last decade my parents have gotten insanely conservative (they've been democrats my whole life until these two).
I'm angry that they want me to spend Mom's birthday with them, Christmas Day, the day after Christmas, another day next week and potentially New Year's Eve. It's insane. They know how I feel so you can see where I rate. Because of course I'm exaggerating things because those two are republicans and I hate all republicans. Blinks. I don't hate people based on political party. I hate them for the things they do and say.
But it's up to me. I don't have to go to Christmas Day or the day after dinner. So I can be with people I hate or be alone on Christmas.
On the bright side, I cleaned up my remix fic and finished three more projects for
fandom_stocking now to start on some
12_daysofficmas stories