Sep 23, 2011 15:17
I went out with my classmates last night on a pub crawl. Needless to say, it got kind of sloppy, but it was fun.
All that aside though, I watched one of my classmates blatantly cheat on his "girlfriend", which shocked me, because about 3 hours before he had told me he had one...then did this, and mentioned to another classmate, "what she doesn't know doesn't hurt her....she's in another postcode" to which my classmate said, "Is she aware of this arrangement?" and he said, "I hope so."
Odd because he seemed very nice, but after that, ugh. I suppose it was a shock for me to watch, because being cheated on, you imagine it happens somewhat in a similar fashion. Not that I'm about to play mom, we're not close friends, but I thought it was pretty fucked.
I was discussing it on the long walk back with another classmate, and she said she can understand, but normally, if she's hooking up, she doesn't care if the person has a gf.
I am assuming I probably wouldn't as well, but if I knew that and he came onto me, I would run away, or slap him most likely. I doubt I would hook up with him. Actually, a friend of mine did that when he had a gf and I ran away from him, yelling his gf's name. Stupid. Just ughh. Maybe I need to forget my moral standards and let loose? But I can't, because I know what a shit feeling it is. I hope that my guy friends would never pull what I saw.
Heh. vent.
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