me, in real life.
COOLblu25: hey girl.
TiffyxLovesxYou: hey what's up?
COOLblu25: reading some really interesting articles about lovers lying.. why it happens and stuff.
COOLblu25: ive been reading this website for the past hour and a half..
TiffyxLovesxYou: oh aimee..
COOLblu25: its fascinating..
COOLblu25: and it all makes sense.
COOLblu25: http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/why_people_lie/public/why_people_lie.html
COOLblu25: Husbands and wives like to think they can tell when the truth is being told. But, this is simply not the case. It is easier to see this type of behavior with a friend than with yourself. Have you ever noticed how a friend can be so trusting of his or her husband or wife while you have an easier time seeing what is really going on?
COOLblu25: BAM!
COOLblu25: lol
TiffyxLovesxYou: lol yup
COOLblu25: crazyyyyyyy
TiffyxLovesxYou: this is a cool website
COOLblu25: i know man
COOLblu25: Lying to a romantic partner or spouse helps us deal with the constraints that our intimate relationships impose. Quite frankly, deceiving a romantic partner turns out to be the most efficient and effective way of maintaining the rewards we get from our romantic relationships while pursuing extra-relational goals and activities behind a partner’s back.
COOLblu25: i just looked up compulsive liars on google and it brought me to this site.. and ive been reading it ever since. lol
COOLblu25: pretty much that quote means that partners lie in order to be able to do their own thing while not losing the relationship they are in..
COOLblu25: http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/why_people_lie/public/need.html
TiffyxLovesxYou: exactly
COOLblu25: and that's what i thought the other day when we were driving and tlaking about it.
TiffyxLovesxYou: lol i've cheated before.. i've been in robs shoes.. kinda.
COOLblu25: ive cheated on others too
COOLblu25: but its hard when it happens to you because you feel like it is done directly to you, when in fact it has nothing to do with you at all..
COOLblu25: so when they lie about it, it's like.. just tell me the truth!!! but if you did hear the truth, you would also be hurt.
TiffyxLovesxYou: i know the sides of cheating.
COOLblu25: haha me too.
COOLblu25: even though i dont talk about it much cuz i am very sercretive with my personal life..
COOLblu25: i know more about stuff than people think i know..
TiffyxLovesxYou: i didn't say that you didn't know..
COOLblu25: which freaks people out when i understand where they are coming from.
COOLblu25: haha i know you didnt. but im just rambling about me.. i never used to before.
COOLblu25: have you noticed how much ive opened up in some areas?
TiffyxLovesxYou: yeah pretty much about everything
TiffyxLovesxYou: i think you're finally realizing who who are
COOLblu25: lol.. i used to have depressive tendencies, but i never told anyone about them.. cuz i kept everything inside.. but now that i explain my feelings, i dont feel so depressed anymore.
COOLblu25: i have. and it feels good.
TiffyxLovesxYou: lol why do you think i'm so open all the time?
TiffyxLovesxYou: it's good for your health. :-)
COOLblu25: hahaha i dont know.. it was always strange to me.. cuz i couldnt do that..
COOLblu25: but now it makes sense.
TiffyxLovesxYou: lol i think you're having a slow epiphany
TiffyxLovesxYou: like.. about everything
COOLblu25: i was too afraid of the reprecautions of my feelings.. like how other people would react to how i felt..
COOLblu25: i thought my feelings were wrong so i repressed them.
COOLblu25: but no one ever knew how i felt as a result.. no one knew the real me.. and in a way.. i didnt know me.
COOLblu25: i am having an epiphany.
TiffyxLovesxYou: sorry to ruin this conversation.. i'm interested and stuff.. but i'm meeting summer at the barn to go riding at 2 and i'm gonna be late lol
COOLblu25: haha have fun
COOLblu25: thank you for listening to me..
COOLblu25: it means more to me than anything.
COOLblu25: <3
TiffyxLovesxYou: no problem.. i just wish someone was there for me when it happened to me after my acid trip
TiffyxLovesxYou: it was like.. nobody understood and i was all alone for it.
TiffyxLovesxYou: :/
COOLblu25: dont be afraid to come to me.
COOLblu25: i know how much it helps me.. so in turn i want to help others.
TiffyxLovesxYou: lol okay i'll text you later k?
COOLblu25: kk. have a good time.
Aimee*
TiffyxLovesxYou: hey what's up?
COOLblu25: reading some really interesting articles about lovers lying.. why it happens and stuff.
COOLblu25: ive been reading this website for the past hour and a half..
TiffyxLovesxYou: oh aimee..
COOLblu25: its fascinating..
COOLblu25: and it all makes sense.
COOLblu25: http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/why_people_lie/public/why_people_lie.html
COOLblu25: Husbands and wives like to think they can tell when the truth is being told. But, this is simply not the case. It is easier to see this type of behavior with a friend than with yourself. Have you ever noticed how a friend can be so trusting of his or her husband or wife while you have an easier time seeing what is really going on?
COOLblu25: BAM!
COOLblu25: lol
TiffyxLovesxYou: lol yup
COOLblu25: crazyyyyyyy
TiffyxLovesxYou: this is a cool website
COOLblu25: i know man
COOLblu25: Lying to a romantic partner or spouse helps us deal with the constraints that our intimate relationships impose. Quite frankly, deceiving a romantic partner turns out to be the most efficient and effective way of maintaining the rewards we get from our romantic relationships while pursuing extra-relational goals and activities behind a partner’s back.
COOLblu25: i just looked up compulsive liars on google and it brought me to this site.. and ive been reading it ever since. lol
COOLblu25: pretty much that quote means that partners lie in order to be able to do their own thing while not losing the relationship they are in..
COOLblu25: http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/why_people_lie/public/need.html
TiffyxLovesxYou: exactly
COOLblu25: and that's what i thought the other day when we were driving and tlaking about it.
TiffyxLovesxYou: lol i've cheated before.. i've been in robs shoes.. kinda.
COOLblu25: ive cheated on others too
COOLblu25: but its hard when it happens to you because you feel like it is done directly to you, when in fact it has nothing to do with you at all..
COOLblu25: so when they lie about it, it's like.. just tell me the truth!!! but if you did hear the truth, you would also be hurt.
TiffyxLovesxYou: i know the sides of cheating.
COOLblu25: haha me too.
COOLblu25: even though i dont talk about it much cuz i am very sercretive with my personal life..
COOLblu25: i know more about stuff than people think i know..
TiffyxLovesxYou: i didn't say that you didn't know..
COOLblu25: which freaks people out when i understand where they are coming from.
COOLblu25: haha i know you didnt. but im just rambling about me.. i never used to before.
COOLblu25: have you noticed how much ive opened up in some areas?
TiffyxLovesxYou: yeah pretty much about everything
TiffyxLovesxYou: i think you're finally realizing who who are
COOLblu25: lol.. i used to have depressive tendencies, but i never told anyone about them.. cuz i kept everything inside.. but now that i explain my feelings, i dont feel so depressed anymore.
COOLblu25: i have. and it feels good.
TiffyxLovesxYou: lol why do you think i'm so open all the time?
TiffyxLovesxYou: it's good for your health. :-)
COOLblu25: hahaha i dont know.. it was always strange to me.. cuz i couldnt do that..
COOLblu25: but now it makes sense.
TiffyxLovesxYou: lol i think you're having a slow epiphany
TiffyxLovesxYou: like.. about everything
COOLblu25: i was too afraid of the reprecautions of my feelings.. like how other people would react to how i felt..
COOLblu25: i thought my feelings were wrong so i repressed them.
COOLblu25: but no one ever knew how i felt as a result.. no one knew the real me.. and in a way.. i didnt know me.
COOLblu25: i am having an epiphany.
TiffyxLovesxYou: sorry to ruin this conversation.. i'm interested and stuff.. but i'm meeting summer at the barn to go riding at 2 and i'm gonna be late lol
COOLblu25: haha have fun
COOLblu25: thank you for listening to me..
COOLblu25: it means more to me than anything.
COOLblu25: <3
TiffyxLovesxYou: no problem.. i just wish someone was there for me when it happened to me after my acid trip
TiffyxLovesxYou: it was like.. nobody understood and i was all alone for it.
TiffyxLovesxYou: :/
COOLblu25: dont be afraid to come to me.
COOLblu25: i know how much it helps me.. so in turn i want to help others.
TiffyxLovesxYou: lol okay i'll text you later k?
COOLblu25: kk. have a good time.
Aimee*