What Choices Are You Making?
I don't think men and women should define each other on a whim, that includes trans men and cis women. And trans men and trans women. And it happens too often, but this is not what it's all about. Not especially because you can't deny a common experience when you're both being lead to the slaughter mill we call society when fools have a voice.
Some people choose not be mothers. And the women who choose not to be mothers are judged, and judged badly. For wanting an abortion. And ladies, Conservative ladies too, is this how you view equality? Having men and women with an agenda making decisions about your own body? You know, the women in this world also choose to be Lesbian or Straight, too (I should add they're bi women) which a lot of us can agree it's silly despite the overwhelming numbers of women who do it. But that's all right. But when you're choosing to not be a mother and you're choosing abortion, you're not choosing magic you're using science. And it's ethical science. Some of these people may not like science, but what they really don't like is ethical science. As a subject, it means giving you women control over their own bodies and autonomy over it. These women (and men) are vocal about wanting you to go through the worst periods making the things that stop or control it an evil, especially if it's hormone based. They'll say they'll help you walk through a parking lot when you're grocery shopping, but they probably wont. But pregnancy is a lot worse than you taking that weekly or monthly walk through a parking lot. You have cysts inside your reproductive organs? No, nope, cause they don't think doctors should go in there and change anything.
I know what I'm saying would piss off a lot of people, many of them men. Men without pregnancies and periods. They'd have you hate and missdefine trans men, but those are actually men (trans men) who are relevant to the debate and might actually understand you. So these "Conservative" men would have you believe trans men's periods are only relevant to them and their confused agenda, because they refuse to take the position that trans men do or don't have periods, and we all know why. To destabilize trans men, but also to destabilize women with female organs and those women who's bodies have reproductive ability. That's the world you're welcoming to your table, misguided women and "moral compassionate" men who swear they would never hurt you.