So, in my boyfriend’s room on his bed sits his homework, his therapy homework. A journal where he is supposed to write angry letters that nobody but him is allowed to read
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Thank you sweets. I agree with you, I think that you hit it right on the button. I am young and I have much to learn about relationships. The journal is his therapy, and he's going to therapy for his anger management problem. When he woke up I told him that I read it. I told him I knew I shouldn't have but I did. I couldn't ignore what he wrote. He told me that he has to write down anything that comes out, even if it's not necessarily true. It's his purging so he can start dealing with his anger effectively. He didn't want to break up, I don't want to end it. I just want to work on things. I don't know, we're still trying this out, everything post his major melt down is new. I think that our communication has changed a lot in the last two weeks, and like I said, my guard is up, and will be up for a long time. We'll see where it goes. I know it'd be one thing if both of us weren't in therapy and weren't getting help and working on our stuff, but we are. SO I want to see how this goes for a while, and if it's obvious that it's not working out, than something will need to change. I guess I should post a new blog about it. Blah. I miss you though! You're moving to Las Vegas? How'd you get your puppy back?
Oh man that's so rad! Having a pup around makes everything smooth. We originally talked about cooling off and having him move out, as well as getting our acts together separately. However, in the last three weeks I've done more outside than in the last six months. It seems like when he had his melt down the whole relationship did a 180. We both started getting our acts together and pushing to do things that are healthy and constructive. I don't know, like I said, my guard is up, if it doesn't work it doesn't work. Furthermore, if things don't keep going how they have been the last two weeks, or start reverting back to the old habits, than it's "call it quit's" time. We both are aware of this. So... we'll see. But Vegas? Really? That's crazy! Good luck on hearing back! How could anyone not want to hire you?
He didn't want to break up, I don't want to end it. I just want to work on things.
I don't know, we're still trying this out, everything post his major melt down is new. I think that our communication has changed a lot in the last two weeks, and like I said, my guard is up, and will be up for a long time. We'll see where it goes.
I know it'd be one thing if both of us weren't in therapy and weren't getting help and working on our stuff, but we are. SO I want to see how this goes for a while, and if it's obvious that it's not working out, than something will need to change. I guess I should post a new blog about it. Blah.
I miss you though! You're moving to Las Vegas? How'd you get your puppy back?
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We originally talked about cooling off and having him move out, as well as getting our acts together separately. However, in the last three weeks I've done more outside than in the last six months. It seems like when he had his melt down the whole relationship did a 180. We both started getting our acts together and pushing to do things that are healthy and constructive.
I don't know, like I said, my guard is up, if it doesn't work it doesn't work. Furthermore, if things don't keep going how they have been the last two weeks, or start reverting back to the old habits, than it's "call it quit's" time. We both are aware of this.
So... we'll see.
But Vegas? Really? That's crazy! Good luck on hearing back! How could anyone not want to hire you?
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