Geekiness and Double Standards
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This made me all giggly with geekiness.
I would also like to point out an interesting conversation I just had with my Dougy.
[10:47] P*komen: Is that the guy you lavished your attention upon in my stead?
[10:47] BlackSwan: yup
[10:48] P *komen: Well, then. No wonder he's all up in your grille.
[10:48] BlackSwan: haha
[10:48] P*komen: That incident was both flattering and depressing
[10:49] P *komen: Or disappointing - not sure which applies when someone else gets something you want very badly.
[10:49] BlackSwan: you think so?
[10:50] P *komen: Oh yeah - I was bumming big time
[10:50] P *komen: Very high on my list of things to fantasize about at the time
[10:50] P*komen: Things were rather, um, intense then.
[10:51] BlackSwan: they were
[10:51] BlackSwan: you're right
[10:51] BlackSwan: woody's ex penny keeps calling him about this guy she's been talking to
[10:51] BlackSwan: and she's fretting she should call him
[10:51] BlackSwan: or when
[10:51] BlackSwan: and i told woody it shouldn't matter if the feelings are equal
[10:52] BlackSwan: i mean you didn't mind talking me all those you were at work did you?
[10:52] BlackSwan: all those hours
[10:52] Pointy *komen: Oh, no - you knew when I couldn't talk
[10:52] Pointy *komen: I loved talking to you
[10:52] Pointy *komen: We had some amazing conversations
[10:53] BlackSwan: exactly
[10:53] BlackSwan: when the feeling is as intense on both sides it doesn't matter
[10:53] Pointy *komen: Right
[10:53] BlackSwan: and i honestly don't believe in that whole double standard of sleeping with a guy too soon
[10:54] BlackSwan: if the guy was worth a damn in the first place he wouldn't think less of you or it
[10:54] P*komen: No - that's just dumb
[10:54] BlackSwan: for
[10:54] P*komen: People have sex for lots of different reasons
[10:54] P*komen: There's no right or wrong unless it involves children or animals
[10:55] BlackSwan: exactly
[10:55] P*komen: It's all about consent
[10:55] BlackSwan: haha
[10:55] BlackSwan: can i post this in my journal?
[10:55] BlackSwan: hehe
[10:55] P*komen: Sure
[10:55] BlackSwan: haha
Not that I would go out, and be the way I used to be with men, now. I just think that double standards are bullshit. Men get pissy when women are that way, but they should look at themselves, too. It's the same on both sides. People are just going to give you shit no matter what, I guess. Which is why I'm going to become a nun.
This made me all giggly with geekiness.
I would also like to point out an interesting conversation I just had with my Dougy.
[10:47] P*komen: Is that the guy you lavished your attention upon in my stead?
[10:47] BlackSwan: yup
[10:48] P *komen: Well, then. No wonder he's all up in your grille.
[10:48] BlackSwan: haha
[10:48] P*komen: That incident was both flattering and depressing
[10:49] P *komen: Or disappointing - not sure which applies when someone else gets something you want very badly.
[10:49] BlackSwan: you think so?
[10:50] P *komen: Oh yeah - I was bumming big time
[10:50] P *komen: Very high on my list of things to fantasize about at the time
[10:50] P*komen: Things were rather, um, intense then.
[10:51] BlackSwan: they were
[10:51] BlackSwan: you're right
[10:51] BlackSwan: woody's ex penny keeps calling him about this guy she's been talking to
[10:51] BlackSwan: and she's fretting she should call him
[10:51] BlackSwan: or when
[10:51] BlackSwan: and i told woody it shouldn't matter if the feelings are equal
[10:52] BlackSwan: i mean you didn't mind talking me all those you were at work did you?
[10:52] BlackSwan: all those hours
[10:52] Pointy *komen: Oh, no - you knew when I couldn't talk
[10:52] Pointy *komen: I loved talking to you
[10:52] Pointy *komen: We had some amazing conversations
[10:53] BlackSwan: exactly
[10:53] BlackSwan: when the feeling is as intense on both sides it doesn't matter
[10:53] Pointy *komen: Right
[10:53] BlackSwan: and i honestly don't believe in that whole double standard of sleeping with a guy too soon
[10:54] BlackSwan: if the guy was worth a damn in the first place he wouldn't think less of you or it
[10:54] P*komen: No - that's just dumb
[10:54] BlackSwan: for
[10:54] P*komen: People have sex for lots of different reasons
[10:54] P*komen: There's no right or wrong unless it involves children or animals
[10:55] BlackSwan: exactly
[10:55] P*komen: It's all about consent
[10:55] BlackSwan: haha
[10:55] BlackSwan: can i post this in my journal?
[10:55] BlackSwan: hehe
[10:55] P*komen: Sure
[10:55] BlackSwan: haha
Not that I would go out, and be the way I used to be with men, now. I just think that double standards are bullshit. Men get pissy when women are that way, but they should look at themselves, too. It's the same on both sides. People are just going to give you shit no matter what, I guess. Which is why I'm going to become a nun.