May 15, 2005 08:42
Let's see...aren't friends suppose to be there in the good times and in the bad times? I'm pretty sure they are, but i guess you can tell a true friend by whether or not they stick around when your going through a rough period in your life. If your friend starts doing drugs(example), what do you do? Do you say, um sorry we can't be friends now because i asked you not to do that and i feel it's a personal attack against me that your doing it even though it's a problem you have and your really struggling with it and need your friends right now...but sorry, i can't stick around because i'm afraid. No, i don't think most of you would do that to your friends, you would probably be like "i really don't like you doing this, please tell me how i can help you, we'll get through this tough time together". NOw that sounds more like a real friend, but i may be wrong...maybe friends are suppose to leave just when things aren't perfect, gee i wish i had friends that would do that, oh wait...i do.