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[complacenthawk]

I just realized something, I cannot ask people for advice about situations where people do not know the entire story or even the people involved. I made a mistake. I appologize to everyone who was kind enough to respond. Yes, of course all that anyone who read that post will see are warning signs in a situation because that is all that I wrote about; that is [i]why[/i] I wrote about them. It was something that was on my mind and I really just wanted to talk about it, but since I didn't have someone to talk with, I was using my LJ instead because I needed to get things out of me, I needed to vent. So I apologize, because I took the tiniest fraction of a situation and wrote about it and not everything in the situation. Now everyone has the completely wrong impression of someone I love, and sadly there is no way that I will be able to change people's minds. That is probably the worst thing that someone can EVER do to someone: construct a negative image of someone in a valued group of people's minds BEFORE they even meet the person when they do not even know the entirity of the situation. I have just condemned someone to always have a bad reputation, no matter what happens in the future. Again, I thank all of you friends for your comments, they truly are valued. I look forward to future comments from everyone who commented, and I sincerely hope that no one takes my deleting of that post and all subsequent comments as anything personal because I guarantee you, it is nothing personal.

Thank you everyone for your advice to walk away but I cannot and will not do so for reasons I am unwilling to share.