Congrats on all your achievements, including quitting your job! That's how i end up leaving most of my jobs. I give as much as i can, and when i get burned out on their crap i leave. It's hard though, especially when you do it without notice, like i often did. And the times i did they kept asking me to work longer. If i'm so horrible, why do you want me to work longer? Good luck in finding a new job, something awesome!
You know chris and i understand the drug and alcohol stuff. Well, i don't totally understand the drug stuff, but in a way i do. It's complicated. People seem to only think you have an alcohol problem if you lose your home and get thrown on the street. I know plenty of functioning alcoholics, and pretty much all of them think they are fine.
Mmmm as for the relationship, i understand the fear of being alone, but maybe you should think of it this way. Is it fair to him to be "holding him back," so to speak? He could be out there finding someone who really does want to marry him and spend the rest of their life with him. Same goes for you. That guy could be right around the corner, waiting to make you the happiest girl in the world, marry you, and give you those kids you want. But, who knows, maybe this is just what you need right now. Even though you feel he's not the one, look at all you have accomplished with him. In the end you did it all yourself, but maybe he was just what you needed to get things done. And maybe, at least for a while, you're meant to stay right where you are.
Love you, contact me any time to hang out or just to talk!
Thanks Girl! Love you too!!! Yeah the job sucked. I went in and helped with EVERYTHING, including things that a manager ONLY is suppose to do. I felt as if I was the only one running it and then to turn around and get cussed at and put down, no thank you, I quit!
He has already been married, twice, to the same person and he already has 2 wonderful girls. He doesn't have any desire to get married again or have any more kids. I hate saying this, but the way I see it right now, is he is like a roommate that helps with bills. Omg I feel awful saying that, but you know what I mean. We do have tons of fun and he's a sweetheart, and I do love him to death, but I just know its not gonna go any further than this. Kinda sucks. His sister keeps calling me her sister in law though and it makes me wonder if he's said something to his family. His mom calls me her daughter in law too and his grandmother says I'm the only one she's liked LOL!! Maybe I just need to give it more time and see where it ends up. Who knows! He could have changed his mind or he might in the future. *shrug*
I'm gonna have to come see yall sometime! I haven't seen Little Bit since you had her!
Good luck in finding a new job, something awesome!
You know chris and i understand the drug and alcohol stuff. Well, i don't totally understand the drug stuff, but in a way i do. It's complicated. People seem to only think you have an alcohol problem if you lose your home and get thrown on the street. I know plenty of functioning alcoholics, and pretty much all of them think they are fine.
Mmmm as for the relationship, i understand the fear of being alone, but maybe you should think of it this way. Is it fair to him to be "holding him back," so to speak? He could be out there finding someone who really does want to marry him and spend the rest of their life with him. Same goes for you. That guy could be right around the corner, waiting to make you the happiest girl in the world, marry you, and give you those kids you want.
But, who knows, maybe this is just what you need right now. Even though you feel he's not the one, look at all you have accomplished with him. In the end you did it all yourself, but maybe he was just what you needed to get things done. And maybe, at least for a while, you're meant to stay right where you are.
Love you, contact me any time to hang out or just to talk!
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Yeah the job sucked. I went in and helped with EVERYTHING, including things that a manager ONLY is suppose to do. I felt as if I was the only one running it and then to turn around and get cussed at and put down, no thank you, I quit!
He has already been married, twice, to the same person and he already has 2 wonderful girls. He doesn't have any desire to get married again or have any more kids. I hate saying this, but the way I see it right now, is he is like a roommate that helps with bills. Omg I feel awful saying that, but you know what I mean. We do have tons of fun and he's a sweetheart, and I do love him to death, but I just know its not gonna go any further than this. Kinda sucks. His sister keeps calling me her sister in law though and it makes me wonder if he's said something to his family. His mom calls me her daughter in law too and his grandmother says I'm the only one she's liked LOL!! Maybe I just need to give it more time and see where it ends up. Who knows! He could have changed his mind or he might in the future. *shrug*
I'm gonna have to come see yall sometime! I haven't seen Little Bit since you had her!
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