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[comesoft_rains]

I've had a quick f-list tidy up, deleted a few people who rarely comment and whose journal I rarely comment on in return. It's only a few people. Satu, no offense but I don't feel comfortable with you reading my LJ anymore. I don't need any helpful suggestions

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[charnah]

Im sorry to say this, but I think its very mean of you to delete satu off your flist..maybe you should delete me too, seeing that I dont want to be in between. then again that would be sad, cause I enjoy reading your entries (even if I dont comment that often). Yet I would rather stick by Satus side.

[comesoft_rains]

I don't think it was mean. This isn't the first time she's offended me in a comment, but this is the first time it has felt like she was deliberately insulting me. This is my journal; it's my one place to talk openly about my life and my thoughts. It's friends only, so it pisses me off when someone who I've decided to share my thoughts with decides to mock me.

I really want us to stay friends, and keep in contact. However, I can understand if you stick by Satu and remove me from your friends list.

[charnah]

top point was probably that I thought you two were friends. Youve know her longer than I have known you, and it makes me feel weird if we were to stay as friends and Id have to block her out in a way, since she most certainly will be asking about you. I did think some of what she wrote was harsh, but rather than simply putting her aside you could ask her and be mad at her, like friends are. If you feel you arent respected enough, you need to rage and ask for that respect that is yours. Not run away and hide.
Believe me, Ive been very pissed off at her too, and it always goes away. Its just normal.
I dont really see any reason in removing you from my flist. I dont really care who reads my writings.

[comesoft_rains]

We don't really have much contact off livejournal, which is both our faults. I don't know, I guess I didn't see it being much of a friendship to lose. Of course it would be nice if the two of us were friends, but maybe it's been too long since we're properlly talked. *shrugs*

[charnah]

I see things so differently. I dont need to stay in touch with my friends from abroad. The important thing is that I still trust them and when I eventually bump into them somewhere, its like we were never apart. It doesnt matter how long it takes, it just stays the same. Thats why I dont mind losing touch that badly. Of course its nice to hear from people, but I understand that people have other things to do too. Even my own life is somewhere else than by the computer nowadays.
You know even my Mum asks about you sometimes and you barely met her.
I know satu can be a hard arse but she was hurt that you shut her off. She doesnt really have that many people she thinks she can count on.

[charnah]

And why do I always survive the cut?? I rarely comment on anyones entries. I was wondering about this when Viggy made a group removal some time ago. I would be sad to lose anyone of you whom I orginally talked more to. (Kata, Krissy, Viggy and you)

[comesoft_rains]

I hadn't thought about it like that. I worry that something is wrong with my relationships if I don't have regular contact with my friends. It's not a very sensible view.

I do trust Satu, and I still care about her. I'm not sure how she sees anymore though. The comment hurt; I got angry and this was the only way I could think of to retaliate. I'll let the dust settle a bit, then email her.

Thanks, Laura, for helping. You are a star.

[comesoft_rains]

"I'm not sure how she sees *me* anymore"

[charnah]

dont you make it seem its ok just cause I put my nose into your business. You dont have to impress me or anything. If you do it, do it cause you mean it and not cause I told you so.

but anyways, take care<3 I gotta go to bed.

We are okay

[salysha]

Hey, I'd like you to know that Sarah and I are okay. We had a long talk and decided it was a mutual misunderstanding which we'll forget about now. :)