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After a few months journal inactivity, I have finally managed to get back to reading the diaper related journals. It was nice finding some new people to friend (dampandrea and diapergirl80), especially as they come across from their journals as “normal” people that just happen to wear diapers.
I was particularly happy to read (diapergirl80 writing here about her search for a “normal” relationship. My heart goes out to you diapergirl, One of the reasons that I regularly disappear is that from reading lj’s it is frequently obvious that their writers have very little experience of “real life”. Perhaps this is a bit harsh, perhaps “Vanilla life” would be (for want of a better phrase) something kinder to say. I just go off and get on with diaper wearing.
I don’t know what you guys think of this, but a lot of this comes down to accepting yourself, and finding out what diapers mean to you. I didn’t find love untill I accepted that diapers were part of me. It is a long time since a diaper by itself gave me a hard-on, but they are part of me. I knew this from the first time I wore them as an adult, but it took me a long time to adjust to this.
Its just like a hormone driven teenager. They discover sex for the first time, and then they spend the next year or so sorting their heads out as to what it means for them, and finding what they like - except for us it’s worse. We have an inbuilt sense of guilt that we are doing something increadibly taboo.
What am I trying to say? Nothing really - DLs are normal people that just happen to wear diapers, we do normal things and have normal interests. We need to be loved for who we are, not for our diapers (or ass-plastic as diapergirl80 put it). The only thing I can say to people is to get out and do things, meet new people and see what happens. There are a lot of people out there that are very open and accepting.
For the last few months I’ve just been out there being me and accidentally wearing diapers 24/7
I was particularly happy to read (diapergirl80 writing here about her search for a “normal” relationship. My heart goes out to you diapergirl, One of the reasons that I regularly disappear is that from reading lj’s it is frequently obvious that their writers have very little experience of “real life”. Perhaps this is a bit harsh, perhaps “Vanilla life” would be (for want of a better phrase) something kinder to say. I just go off and get on with diaper wearing.
I don’t know what you guys think of this, but a lot of this comes down to accepting yourself, and finding out what diapers mean to you. I didn’t find love untill I accepted that diapers were part of me. It is a long time since a diaper by itself gave me a hard-on, but they are part of me. I knew this from the first time I wore them as an adult, but it took me a long time to adjust to this.
Its just like a hormone driven teenager. They discover sex for the first time, and then they spend the next year or so sorting their heads out as to what it means for them, and finding what they like - except for us it’s worse. We have an inbuilt sense of guilt that we are doing something increadibly taboo.
What am I trying to say? Nothing really - DLs are normal people that just happen to wear diapers, we do normal things and have normal interests. We need to be loved for who we are, not for our diapers (or ass-plastic as diapergirl80 put it). The only thing I can say to people is to get out and do things, meet new people and see what happens. There are a lot of people out there that are very open and accepting.
For the last few months I’ve just been out there being me and accidentally wearing diapers 24/7