Diaperplay
One of the big misconceptions of incontinence is the lack of sexual function. Totally wrong. Everything works. What is necessary is imagination. Diapers don’t fit well into a vanilla relationship. For somebody to not run away when you tell them you have to wear diapers they have to be either desperate, or not totally vanilla (or perhaps the diaper wearer is some kind of superman). However, they can be easily incorporated into some form of D/s or BDSM relationship. Perhaps the key is in the planning.
Now, I have put D/s and BDSM in the same phrase, and I am sure that this will annoy some purists. D/s is Dominant and submissive, whilst BDSM stands for Bondage Discipline, Sadism, and Masochism. These limits are not as clear cut as many people would want you to believe. In a BDSM relationship there is automatically a top and a bottom, who roughly translate as a D and s. However, where the two do separate is away from the pure sex play. D/s can be seen as a more global phenomena. Anyway, I’m getting away from the point here. The basic point that I’m trying to say is that in general a BDSM scene or some heavy D/s play needs some planning. This fits in very well with diapers.
As I’m sure that you have all guessed, I’m not a top or Dom. I’m very much bottom/sub. Most of the time that we are together in the flat we are playing at some level. As a diaper slave my ‘uniform’ if you want to call it that is a T-shirt and exposed diaper, with plastic panties over. My wife however, enjoys being a top, but sometimes wonders about trying to switch. I’ve never switched, and to be honest I wouldn’t know where to start.
This then brings us to a dilemma. For Magali to be happy and explore how she feels will almost certainly involve a third person at some point. Something we are not quite ready for. Me - I dream really quite vivid dreams about large rock hard knobs. Licking them, sucking them, caressing them, and more importantly being taken hard up the arse by one. However, one thing that is never there is seeing Magali with another man. For her part, she doesn’t really want another man in the relationship. For her, she would prefer to explore things with a girl, however, for the first time that we have a third person, there is no way that she (nor I) would accept that the third was the Dom (although we agree that we would play as three). So, either we try and find a gay Dom, or perhaps a female sub. Now comes the hard part - neither of us are, or want to be part of a local ‘scene’. I think for the moment I’ll have to make do with my butt-plugs and Magalis’ strap-on
Now, I have put D/s and BDSM in the same phrase, and I am sure that this will annoy some purists. D/s is Dominant and submissive, whilst BDSM stands for Bondage Discipline, Sadism, and Masochism. These limits are not as clear cut as many people would want you to believe. In a BDSM relationship there is automatically a top and a bottom, who roughly translate as a D and s. However, where the two do separate is away from the pure sex play. D/s can be seen as a more global phenomena. Anyway, I’m getting away from the point here. The basic point that I’m trying to say is that in general a BDSM scene or some heavy D/s play needs some planning. This fits in very well with diapers.
As I’m sure that you have all guessed, I’m not a top or Dom. I’m very much bottom/sub. Most of the time that we are together in the flat we are playing at some level. As a diaper slave my ‘uniform’ if you want to call it that is a T-shirt and exposed diaper, with plastic panties over. My wife however, enjoys being a top, but sometimes wonders about trying to switch. I’ve never switched, and to be honest I wouldn’t know where to start.
This then brings us to a dilemma. For Magali to be happy and explore how she feels will almost certainly involve a third person at some point. Something we are not quite ready for. Me - I dream really quite vivid dreams about large rock hard knobs. Licking them, sucking them, caressing them, and more importantly being taken hard up the arse by one. However, one thing that is never there is seeing Magali with another man. For her part, she doesn’t really want another man in the relationship. For her, she would prefer to explore things with a girl, however, for the first time that we have a third person, there is no way that she (nor I) would accept that the third was the Dom (although we agree that we would play as three). So, either we try and find a gay Dom, or perhaps a female sub. Now comes the hard part - neither of us are, or want to be part of a local ‘scene’. I think for the moment I’ll have to make do with my butt-plugs and Magalis’ strap-on