Eureka Moment
"Why is it that when you need someone the most, he/she is never there?" I have heard this question so many times this week and I, at this point, can't stand to hear it any more. However this very question has been weighing on me since I first heard it asked last week and I couldn't figure out why, until I actually answered the question.
No one is there in your time of need because the only person you NEED in your time of need is yourself.
The big epiphany behind this question wasn't the answer, but how I answered now vs how I would have answered in the past. In the past my answer might have been something along the lines of "well it just goes to show who your real friends are" or something to that nature, but now, after all the crap I have been through in the last few years, I have found that I have started to depend less on other people. Now the key word there was "STARTED". I am not fully dependent on myself, but then again, who is? All I know is that things for me aren't changing but my way of dealing with it has, therefore things have gotten easier....