Soup
I think everyone should slurp down a nice warm bowl of Compassion Soup. Allow me to speak in generalizations: You're mad at this one for not coming to you to apologize, but this one is mad at you for not being straight with them about you having a problem with them. Best part, you both want the other to "be the bigger person". Or better yet, maybe you're the one who didn't accept the apology when it did come--well, you said you did, but we all still feel the grudge hanging over our heads. No one seems to be seeing the other side of things. Sure, things are hard for you--you're stressed, life isn't going well, etc. It's something safe to hide behind. A good excuse, a rationalization, a justification. Maybe you haven't looked, but everything's hard and everyone's stressed. It's what you do about it that counts.
By the way, the soup's good with Crazy Salt like everything else.