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theidolhands asks: "Did you ever have a coworker/boss that you liked who ended up turning against you? What were the circumstances? Where are they now?"
Then there was the employee who acted sweet as sugar to my face and totally understanding of my problems, until she was asked if she was witness to anything that happened the night of my assault and told them I was pretty much a slut and liar. Oh, and I found out she'd been sneaking bits of bleach into my rag bucket, because she didn't believe I was actually allergic.
Or the employee who was nice until I refused to send my younger sister to buy her alcohol during the shift and retaliated by telling management I was a lazy good-for-nothing who sat on my ass the entire shift.
There's more, but those were the first three that came to mind. The first one is friends with me on Facebook. We talk occasionally, but I have no real proof of a legitimate change in her behavior, so we don't hang out in-person. The second still works there but is now homeless. The third quit, then called me for a ride to the ER after a suicide attempt a few weeks later. While there, she handed me her license. When she got out, she tried to get a job at a strip club and needed her ID. She managed to contact me, accused me of using her license to steal her identity, and tell me she'd gone to the cops to press charges. This was all in a text out of the blue about a month after I dropped her off at the hospital. I was living in a motel, so I told her to pick it up at the front desk. Haven't seen or heard from her since. (And ftr, I never tried and never will, but I'm 99.99% sure there's no way I could steal an identity with just a driver's license.)
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why do you keep communicating with such sketchy people? was all that after they backstabbed you?
i too have had a lot of bad incidences with bipolar people who won't take thier meds and have angry/volatile personalities coupled with nice behavior (which is extra hinky), it's really confusing when you don't know that's what is going on or that it's happening to others
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As for communicating with people who have stabbed me in he back, a lot of it had to do with our shift having maybe 5 people for the entire 10hr shift. Sometimes as little as 2, so it was hard to avoid talking to them. And I've always had the "ride or die" personality, so even if we're on shit terms, you can call me in case of emergency and expect me to show up. I might take you to the hospital and immediately dip again, or ask that you find someone else next time, but I'm there jic. I would've felt like shit to see her name in the paper and known she died because I didn't feel like answering the phone. :/ The rest of it could probably be chalked up to me just being a glutton for punishment. Lol
I will say that after that job and the Hell I went through with my ex, I learned to be much more careful about who I let get close enough to realize I was an RorD.
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