things that i've realized this semester....
- EVERY N*GGA IS CRAZY [ENC]: i've come to the realization that currently males my age [not gonna call them boys or men, their just in that weird in between stage], are crazy. some more than others, and some you can actually subdue (sp?) their craziness. but the fact still remains that their just a crazy hot triflin mess. they either want to hump anything that walks... or they wanna "wife" someone up and still hump around. or their all about that "guap"
- EVERY GIRL IS STUPID [EGC]: yes, i said it. girls are just as a hot ass mess as the men are. i've never seen so many females just be a hot crazy mess as i have this semester. i'm included in this, cause i mean i do a lot of stupid things, i just hide it well to the general public. i realize that a lot of the time girls know that they're getting played, but they just deny it because they don't want to believe it. because they think that they can change "him" into who they want, and not saying that you can't, but many times if a dude doesn't want to change he's really not going to.
- NOT EVERYONE IS GRINDING LIKE THEY SAY THEY ARE: i'm really tired of people being like they're hustlin, they're grindin, blah blah blah, but have ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to show for it. i'm sorry you can't be a real "academic hustler" if you're out every damn day of the week @wing night getting drunk and shit. talking about "C's get you degrees" yes you fuckhead but they don't get you into grad school.
- REAL RECOGNIZE REAL: people are fake and trifling, and not everyone has your best interest at heart. now, normally i'm not the type of person who runs around saying that they're the realest of the real. but i do consider myself to be a genuine person, and i expect the same from others. however i realize that sometimes that way too much to ask. please don't preach to me about being a good christian or praising the Lord, when you're trifling ass is running around being grimey and lying and purposely trying to make people feel bad about themselves. THAT'S NOT REAL.
- BOO AND BOYFRIEND ARE NOT THE SAME THING: *sigh* this should be self explanatory, but the last time i checked, your "boo" and your "boyfriend" aren't the same thing. i mean sure you can be like "hey boo," or "aww look at my boo" but saying that someone is your "boo" usually means that ya'll are boo'd up. as in thats your boy toy, or perhaps ya'll are working on making that real relationship thing happen, but you're not quite there yet. but if you've been at the boo stage for over 6 months, and the boy still hasn't taken you ANYWHERE or bought you ne thing, OR you were the other woman, he's not planning on wifing you up anytime soon.
- YOU'RE NOT BRINGING SEXY BACK: nuff said.
- YOU'RE NOT KIND OF A BIG DEAL: i just want people to stop hyping themselves. @ 20-something, why the fuck do you care how cool people think you are? that shit died after i graduated high school. i don't want people all in my gov't and knowing my business. ESPECIALLY at an institute of higher learning where minorities aren't even separated by 6 degrees of separation, it's more like 0.5. please get over yourself. ASAP
- STOP BEING A SLOPPY WHORE: there's nothing wrong with being a little freaky in the bedroom, but i don't want to know about it. i don't want to hear all you're business like that. every time i talk to you, PLEASE don't feel inclined when i talk to you to tell me how good the n*gga was when you were on your back. and when i give you a screwed faced, don't be like it's cause i'm single. cause i can get down with the get down, but i don't need to walk around like with "whore" written across my forehead. thats just extra. it's called discretion, if you don't know what it means, look it up in the dictionary.
- MY TIME IS VALUABLE: and i love being a good friend, but please don't ask me for advice ne more if you're just going to disregard it without any consideration or tell me i don't know what the fuck i'm talking about. i have much more important things i could be doing like sleeping or studying, so if you're not gonna appreciate my help. don't ask.
there's probably more, but those are the ones that stand out in my mind.
i just hope people step up their game in the 07'
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