part 2
So after the recomendation from the family counselor was given and we both signed consenting to that agreement we were ushered into another hearing room where we were supposed to handle the issue of support.
Now when I received the hearing information in the mail there was a list of documents we both needed to present attached and I spent several days gathering all this information. Courts arent supposed to take folks word for it because as we know alot of folk lie for a living. That being so I was all prepared to substantiate everything I said. That DID NOT go down. He lied about everything from what he makes to how much he pays for Cameron's health care. Come on 127 bucks a month JUST for Cameron? That sounds insane to me and I know he fudged it. But nobody called him on it.
On top of that this dude kept shutting me down everytime I tried to speak up about it. I was tired as hel by then though so I wasnt nearly as presistent or thorough as I normally would have been. The whole thing was such a joke. I could have pulled anything out of my ass and he would have believed it. But I try to be an honest person and I low balled my answers when I was unsure rather tha estimate higher and be proven a liar. At any rate I was NOT pleased with the outcome, but since his whole aim was to get his support lowered he didnt have any complaints.
In fact, according to the new parenting time order he was supposed to have gotten Cameron for two hours last night. (he got wednesday nights and every other weekend two weeks in the summer) I tried calling after the hearing to see if he planned to follow through. No answer. I left a message. No reply. I sent a text asking him to confirm receiving the message. Nothing.
Then I emailed asking when he wanted to being every other weekend. Nothing still. I was right all along and this was confirmation. He didnt give a damn about visitation or custody or any of that shit. He was celebrating the money aspect of it. Little does joe simple know however that I have 3 weeks to objest and I have already downloaded and completed my statement of objection forms requesting another hearing and documentation of his claims, PLEAS BELIEVE this aint over!
I wouldn't even care if he hadn't tried to pimp my baby for some dollars or if he gave a damn and when there was a need he could be counted on to assist hell if he just came around consistently I would be cool but if all my son is gonna get is a check that check needs to be right.!
Maybe I'm being petty made I'm just angry but either way I am just tired of the foolishness with him and he needs to either be a fathr or get the hell on.