Frustration...
Hi guys..
Im having a rough day... I have been on the phone with Barbara ( the witch grandmother that took me to court)... I let her speak to Haven and then she wanted to talk to me. She says she hasnt heard anything as far as a ruling from the judge on the court case. I havent either except for the recommendation from the attorney down there that was in the best interest of the child. He recommended me be in custody, the grandparents get vistation and that if shayne got vistation it should be supervised. But Barbara is wondering that at whatever point she does get some visitation that if I will be flexible with her. Now, I hate being the bad guy, but sometimes I can invision scratching her eyeballs out..
I told her I didnt know how it was going to go. Im sure the judge will grant them some kind of vistation, and that Im willing to be okay with that, but I dont know if they ( the court) sets the schedule or if we will be able to do that. I dont know if Im supposed to abide by whatever they issue out , or if they will let us do a schedule of our own. Barbara doesnt seem to keen on a week a month ( which I figured might be a possible ruling) She has custody of Shaynes brother's 3 kids and they had to hire somebody to watch them last time they came to get Haven. She said she doesnt want to raise her, but she seems more interested in something along the lines of 2 weeks maybe every 2 months, which Im not cool with ( I cant be away from her that long!!!) She was also bitching because she said that Bowling Green wasnt the half-way point to meet at.. It just seems like the whole ordeal is an inconvience to her.. it just seems like they want to get her just whenever the hell it might be convient for them ( as if I dont have a life??!!!!!!!)
Im mean, Im willing to work with them, to a degree. I have to now, because they dragged it into court....I want them to know her, but, damn, it seems so one-sided...
Im frustrated beyond belief....
Im having a rough day... I have been on the phone with Barbara ( the witch grandmother that took me to court)... I let her speak to Haven and then she wanted to talk to me. She says she hasnt heard anything as far as a ruling from the judge on the court case. I havent either except for the recommendation from the attorney down there that was in the best interest of the child. He recommended me be in custody, the grandparents get vistation and that if shayne got vistation it should be supervised. But Barbara is wondering that at whatever point she does get some visitation that if I will be flexible with her. Now, I hate being the bad guy, but sometimes I can invision scratching her eyeballs out..
I told her I didnt know how it was going to go. Im sure the judge will grant them some kind of vistation, and that Im willing to be okay with that, but I dont know if they ( the court) sets the schedule or if we will be able to do that. I dont know if Im supposed to abide by whatever they issue out , or if they will let us do a schedule of our own. Barbara doesnt seem to keen on a week a month ( which I figured might be a possible ruling) She has custody of Shaynes brother's 3 kids and they had to hire somebody to watch them last time they came to get Haven. She said she doesnt want to raise her, but she seems more interested in something along the lines of 2 weeks maybe every 2 months, which Im not cool with ( I cant be away from her that long!!!) She was also bitching because she said that Bowling Green wasnt the half-way point to meet at.. It just seems like the whole ordeal is an inconvience to her.. it just seems like they want to get her just whenever the hell it might be convient for them ( as if I dont have a life??!!!!!!!)
Im mean, Im willing to work with them, to a degree. I have to now, because they dragged it into court....I want them to know her, but, damn, it seems so one-sided...
Im frustrated beyond belief....