Hello. I need some love advice. I’m not the kind of person who has close friends who I can talk to about these things. I’m a bit of a loner, so I really appreciate the time you take to read this
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This is pretty easy. Yes you are his sex toy. No matter how much you "don't want to be" that's what you are. He knows he can get it from you, all he has to do is put forth a little effort. Like the night you had a few drinks. Coerced, my ass, if you didn't want to do it, you wouldn't have. And since he said he doesn't want a gf, yet you still hang with him, give him affection, why would he even begin to want to say he wants a relationship with you? It's like a kid. The kid wants a peices of candy from 2 people.
Person one says "I'll give you this candy, but you must always do your homework first and let me check it to make sure it's right"
Person 2 says the same thing, but doesn't actually hold true to it, and gives the candy anyway.
If i were the kid, i would always go to person 2, because i know i don't have to actually do the work like person 1 said. i just have to pretend like i care.
You are person 2 in this scenaro. It may sound harsh, but you asked for advice. I say you leave him alone. If you are truley serious about wanting a relationship, then just leave him alone. S'all i can say.
The kid wants a peices of candy from 2 people.
Person one says "I'll give you this candy, but you must always do your homework first and let me check it to make sure it's right"
Person 2 says the same thing, but doesn't actually hold true to it, and gives the candy anyway.
If i were the kid, i would always go to person 2, because i know i don't have to actually do the work like person 1 said. i just have to pretend like i care.
You are person 2 in this scenaro. It may sound harsh, but you asked for advice. I say you leave him alone. If you are truley serious about wanting a relationship, then just leave him alone. S'all i can say.
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