A grown woman should be a grown woman!
Sometimes I wonder why I even bother caring about my little sister. All it does is stress me the hell out.
So her car sucks. Instead of using that as an incentive to push forward and get a job at McDonalds or Walmart while she's looking for her vet tech job she gets dad to pay for the repairs... on the condition that she 'clean her room'.
WTF?
The girl is 26... in THREE DAYS... and she's treated and acts as if she's 7! An adult shouldn't need an incentive to clean their room when they are living RENT FREE with mommy and daddy. A clean room should be a given.
Fuck.
Were I my father I'd have told her to search out a damn bus route from now on and let that damn car sit until SHE'S earned enough money to have it fixed... and hell... if her room isn't clean.. she doesn't get one! Especially if she doesn't have a job!
But then again I expect a grown woman to act like a grown woman and not a child. I suppose I am expecting too much from my younger sister.
And yes, dad's just as much a part of this problem as Heidi is. He gives into her and TREATS her the way she demands to be treated (like she were a child), paying for shit she hasn't earned or even deserves. The more he panders to her selfish, lazy ways the more she's going to remain the same.
I HATE the fact that she acts this way. She could be so much MORE then what she is if she actually pushed aside her selfish lazy personality and TRIED in life.
So her car sucks. Instead of using that as an incentive to push forward and get a job at McDonalds or Walmart while she's looking for her vet tech job she gets dad to pay for the repairs... on the condition that she 'clean her room'.
WTF?
The girl is 26... in THREE DAYS... and she's treated and acts as if she's 7! An adult shouldn't need an incentive to clean their room when they are living RENT FREE with mommy and daddy. A clean room should be a given.
Fuck.
Were I my father I'd have told her to search out a damn bus route from now on and let that damn car sit until SHE'S earned enough money to have it fixed... and hell... if her room isn't clean.. she doesn't get one! Especially if she doesn't have a job!
But then again I expect a grown woman to act like a grown woman and not a child. I suppose I am expecting too much from my younger sister.
And yes, dad's just as much a part of this problem as Heidi is. He gives into her and TREATS her the way she demands to be treated (like she were a child), paying for shit she hasn't earned or even deserves. The more he panders to her selfish, lazy ways the more she's going to remain the same.
I HATE the fact that she acts this way. She could be so much MORE then what she is if she actually pushed aside her selfish lazy personality and TRIED in life.