A Revelation
I just figured it all out. I know exactly why everyone always crawls into a certain girls direction. She gives them the attention that they want. It's always been about their convienence, never about her. (The following names have been changed for privacy)
In Ed's case- She was easy to get and she told him what he wanted to hear because he was upset about his ex-girlfriend who had just broken up with him. (AKA-he was on the rebound)
My opinion? She only hurt him more.
In Devon's case- He wanted one thing and only one thing from her and she was willing to give it to him, no matter what it took.
My opinion? It was wrong of him to eventually shut her out and come back to me, but she deserved it all.
In Ben's case- She was an easy way out from all of his life problems.
My opinion? He was simply using her.
In Matt's case- He was confused on who he wanted, but he kept running back to her in order to survive. Eventually, he did figure out who he truly loved, but he couldnt be with her for a number of reasons. He saw her as a place to live and to get the true attention that he needed.
My opinion? She drove him insane but he put up with it and then decided he couldn't anymore.
In Amy's case- Almost exact repeat of Matt. This girl simply doesn't know who she actually truly loves but stays with the person that can give her the most attention that she craves. She only thinks about what will be best for her. (Selfishness!) In the mean time when she only thinks about herself, she breaks everyone else's heart that she comes into romantic contact with.
My opinion? She will come running back in my direction eventually.
Now...I've obviously changed names and whatever else to prevent getting bitched at and to leave everyone thinking "Is this about me?" Well, my guess is you won't be able to figure it out so don't even bother and it's probably not about you.
In Ed's case- She was easy to get and she told him what he wanted to hear because he was upset about his ex-girlfriend who had just broken up with him. (AKA-he was on the rebound)
My opinion? She only hurt him more.
In Devon's case- He wanted one thing and only one thing from her and she was willing to give it to him, no matter what it took.
My opinion? It was wrong of him to eventually shut her out and come back to me, but she deserved it all.
In Ben's case- She was an easy way out from all of his life problems.
My opinion? He was simply using her.
In Matt's case- He was confused on who he wanted, but he kept running back to her in order to survive. Eventually, he did figure out who he truly loved, but he couldnt be with her for a number of reasons. He saw her as a place to live and to get the true attention that he needed.
My opinion? She drove him insane but he put up with it and then decided he couldn't anymore.
In Amy's case- Almost exact repeat of Matt. This girl simply doesn't know who she actually truly loves but stays with the person that can give her the most attention that she craves. She only thinks about what will be best for her. (Selfishness!) In the mean time when she only thinks about herself, she breaks everyone else's heart that she comes into romantic contact with.
My opinion? She will come running back in my direction eventually.
Now...I've obviously changed names and whatever else to prevent getting bitched at and to leave everyone thinking "Is this about me?" Well, my guess is you won't be able to figure it out so don't even bother and it's probably not about you.