i found this on some site and it made my heart skip a beat.
What To Do If Your Man Is Stressing You Out by *Alex, the Girl*
How many times have you complained to your BFF that your boyfriend isn't doing things to make you happy? How many times has he let you down? How many times have you been there for him, but he's never been there for you really (and a ride home in his car doesn't count, girls)?
Well ladies, if he's stressing you out, don't beat around the bush and tell him exactly what's on your mind. Communication is a big part of what makes a relationship work. Because of lack of communication, over 50% of relationships end up going bye-bye.
"But I told him that he's not doing things right and he continues to do the wrong things, Alex.... what should I do then?" CUT HIM OFF! If there's anything that you don't need, ladies, it's the stress that a man dishes out!
If you have to correct your guys actions and he continues to do the wrong thing, that tells you straight up that he's not listening. There is nothing you could do with a guy who doesn't listen to you. There is nothing you could do with a guy who won't talk about the problems that you have. There is nothing you could do with a guy that causes you stress! Stress causes illness, and I'm sure that the last thing you want to happen is to find out that you've developed a peptic ulcer over some dude who doesn't get it.
Keeping him around for rides home or to avoid being alone, or for any invalid reason is WRONG on your part! If you can remember more bad times than you do good times, then the relationship is over. If your conversations with your BFF is about what he does wrong instead of what spontaneously sweet thing he did, then it's time to set that Fido free.
Is a bad relationship really worth it? Trust me girls... it isn't. Setting that guy free is best.
How many times have you complained to your BFF that your boyfriend isn't doing things to make you happy? How many times has he let you down? How many times have you been there for him, but he's never been there for you really (and a ride home in his car doesn't count, girls)?
Well ladies, if he's stressing you out, don't beat around the bush and tell him exactly what's on your mind. Communication is a big part of what makes a relationship work. Because of lack of communication, over 50% of relationships end up going bye-bye.
"But I told him that he's not doing things right and he continues to do the wrong things, Alex.... what should I do then?" CUT HIM OFF! If there's anything that you don't need, ladies, it's the stress that a man dishes out!
If you have to correct your guys actions and he continues to do the wrong thing, that tells you straight up that he's not listening. There is nothing you could do with a guy who doesn't listen to you. There is nothing you could do with a guy who won't talk about the problems that you have. There is nothing you could do with a guy that causes you stress! Stress causes illness, and I'm sure that the last thing you want to happen is to find out that you've developed a peptic ulcer over some dude who doesn't get it.
Keeping him around for rides home or to avoid being alone, or for any invalid reason is WRONG on your part! If you can remember more bad times than you do good times, then the relationship is over. If your conversations with your BFF is about what he does wrong instead of what spontaneously sweet thing he did, then it's time to set that Fido free.
Is a bad relationship really worth it? Trust me girls... it isn't. Setting that guy free is best.