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For some reason Jeffrey thought that yesterday, after I told him how absolutely ridiculously crappy I was feeling about things with the way that Joey is treating me (not getting into it, because somehow I'm even more livid at Jeff right now), would be a good time to detail to me his new relationships. I was walking to the grocery store and was about to start crying so I was just like, "I don't want to talk to you right now" and got off the phone. Later I texted him telling him that I found it really insensitive, given my current state of mind, the fact that I just sent him a six-page letter telling him how I felt about him which he never even acknowledged, and just, you know, why are you telling me this? What benefit is this doing to either of us? Anyway, then he got really pissy and sent me these progressively angry text messages about how I was being accusatory by calling his behavior insensitive and how I had pushed him into telling me about his relationships (...by asking "what's going on") and I was just like, "Well, it did hurt my feelings, so you don't have to be a jerk about it" and he kept sending MORE text messages about how this was my fault and blah-blah-blah, JESUS CHRIST, JUST APOLOGIZE AND WE'LL MOVE ON. Seriously, I'm so fucking sick of people getting defensive about getting called out as if there's absolutely no way that they could ever say anything offensive. LOSE YOUR STUPID ANARCHIST EGO.
I usually wouldn't be so bothered about the whole situation, but really, today's not the day to remind me that you've always been a great loving partner to everyone else but me.
