A FEW THINGS TO CONSIDER ?
" Never change just to make someone happy. Who you really are will come out, and you'll end up wasting time. "
You can't help being the person you are. Everyone's got different traits, habits, opinions, etc. If you were ever to change yourself, it should be because YOU are unhappy with YOURSELF, therefore you are changing to make yourself happy. If someone can't accept how you are, then they aren't worth being friends with or being in a relationship with. And if you don't like how a person is, then go find someone who you DO like for how they are.
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" Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down. "
This is a given. We're so oblivious to the fact that many of the people we're friends with are only friends with us not because they really want to be friends with us, but because they are getting something out of the friendship. It could be that you give them rides in your car, you spot them whenever you go out to shop/eat, you have the coolest parties, you give them a high social reputation/status, you get them hook-ups, etc. But when it all falls down and you get your car taken away, you go broke, you stop having parties, you lose your popularity, you can no longer hook them up, etc. ... who's still gonna be there?
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" Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always preserves. "
This comes straight from the Bible. There are so many definitions of what love is, and I believe it's possible for everyone to have their own definition for it, but I think everything mentioned in this quote should also apply to whatever you already believe. So many people know and agree with this quote, but it's so funny cause those people will often be in relationships that don't even follow what's been said .. yet they will still insist "it's love". Yeah, sure it is.
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" Never regret anything. Why? Because at some point in your life, it was exactly what you wanted. "
True.
You can't help being the person you are. Everyone's got different traits, habits, opinions, etc. If you were ever to change yourself, it should be because YOU are unhappy with YOURSELF, therefore you are changing to make yourself happy. If someone can't accept how you are, then they aren't worth being friends with or being in a relationship with. And if you don't like how a person is, then go find someone who you DO like for how they are.
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" Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down. "
This is a given. We're so oblivious to the fact that many of the people we're friends with are only friends with us not because they really want to be friends with us, but because they are getting something out of the friendship. It could be that you give them rides in your car, you spot them whenever you go out to shop/eat, you have the coolest parties, you give them a high social reputation/status, you get them hook-ups, etc. But when it all falls down and you get your car taken away, you go broke, you stop having parties, you lose your popularity, you can no longer hook them up, etc. ... who's still gonna be there?
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" Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always preserves. "
This comes straight from the Bible. There are so many definitions of what love is, and I believe it's possible for everyone to have their own definition for it, but I think everything mentioned in this quote should also apply to whatever you already believe. So many people know and agree with this quote, but it's so funny cause those people will often be in relationships that don't even follow what's been said .. yet they will still insist "it's love". Yeah, sure it is.
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" Never regret anything. Why? Because at some point in your life, it was exactly what you wanted. "
True.