... UM, WHAT ? *INSERT RANT*
Hahaha. Now this should be interesting ..
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I wonder how people do it. You know .. where they constantly change their feelings about something/someone all of a sudden. Bi-polar much? And how can someone want to be with that kind of person? Why would you want to be with someone who will change their mind all the time? Weirdos.
What are you afraid of? Stop comparing yourself and your relationships to others. Everyone has their own story. Take a chance before it's too late and you start to make regrets. Some people end up with their first loves .. but others end up with their fifth or sixth. Honestly, I'd rather be someone's last love than their first. You can't always be right the first time. You're allowed to make mistakes. Don't be so hard on yourself.
It frustrates me how easy it is for someone to believe the WORDS coming out of another person's mouth. For all you know, it could be BULLSHIT. We naturally love it when someone tells us exactly what we want to hear .. but don't be fooled. That person knows you well enough to know exactly what they need to say to reel you in. "Words don't express your love, you gotta prove it." Also, actions speak louder than words. True?
I don't like telling people, especially you, what they should/shouldn't do, but if there's one thing that I could ask of you, if I knew you would listen, it would be this: if that person REALLY makes you HAPPY then go ahead and try again, otherwise .. please don't go back.
Leading a person on is a horrible thing to do. It's a bit understandable if you do it unintentionally, but honestly .. if you don't think you would ever get with that person or whatnot .. let them know straight up and stop being a tease. Don't let that person fall for you even more than they already have. Put yourself in their situation and see how it would feel. This is almost parallel to being a "playa". No one likes those, k?
I despise when a person is in a relationship for all the wrong reasons. You don't really want to be with someone, you're just with them because you want something from them. And it breaks my heart to know that the other person is too blinded by love to realize this. Because all they're thinking is that they can't believe that the person they have such strong feelings for could actually feel the same for them.
Someone who gets mad over all the small things or someone who knows that those small things are not worth fighting about? Someone who mixes you in with other priorities or someone who puts you right at the top and will go out of their way for you? Someone who takes advantage of you or someone who always notices and thanks you for every little thing you do? Someone who tries to make you do what they want you to do or someone who just wants you to be happy, regardless of what you want to do with your life? Someone who will break up with you after every big fight you get in then want to get back with you the next day or someone who will always stick with you even when times are bad? Hmmm.
Sometimes, you just shouldn't give someone a second chance. When you give a person a second chance, that's basically letting them know they got away with whatever it is they did that made them lose you the first time, whether it was cheating, lying, abusing, etc. But in the end, it's to your own discretion, right?
What's the point in staying with someone when you don't want to be with them anymore? Can someone please tell me 'cause I just don't understand why people do that.
You can't keep hoping for something that will never happen. If you've already waited for so long and it hasn't happened yet, shouldn't that be a big enough sign ?
I don't need your sympathy/guilt. That's why I haven't said anything, and that's why I still won't say anything. All I will say is this: you have absolutely no idea.
Did I miss something ? 'Cause this just doesn't add up ..
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I wonder how people do it. You know .. where they constantly change their feelings about something/someone all of a sudden. Bi-polar much? And how can someone want to be with that kind of person? Why would you want to be with someone who will change their mind all the time? Weirdos.
What are you afraid of? Stop comparing yourself and your relationships to others. Everyone has their own story. Take a chance before it's too late and you start to make regrets. Some people end up with their first loves .. but others end up with their fifth or sixth. Honestly, I'd rather be someone's last love than their first. You can't always be right the first time. You're allowed to make mistakes. Don't be so hard on yourself.
It frustrates me how easy it is for someone to believe the WORDS coming out of another person's mouth. For all you know, it could be BULLSHIT. We naturally love it when someone tells us exactly what we want to hear .. but don't be fooled. That person knows you well enough to know exactly what they need to say to reel you in. "Words don't express your love, you gotta prove it." Also, actions speak louder than words. True?
I don't like telling people, especially you, what they should/shouldn't do, but if there's one thing that I could ask of you, if I knew you would listen, it would be this: if that person REALLY makes you HAPPY then go ahead and try again, otherwise .. please don't go back.
Leading a person on is a horrible thing to do. It's a bit understandable if you do it unintentionally, but honestly .. if you don't think you would ever get with that person or whatnot .. let them know straight up and stop being a tease. Don't let that person fall for you even more than they already have. Put yourself in their situation and see how it would feel. This is almost parallel to being a "playa". No one likes those, k?
I despise when a person is in a relationship for all the wrong reasons. You don't really want to be with someone, you're just with them because you want something from them. And it breaks my heart to know that the other person is too blinded by love to realize this. Because all they're thinking is that they can't believe that the person they have such strong feelings for could actually feel the same for them.
Someone who gets mad over all the small things or someone who knows that those small things are not worth fighting about? Someone who mixes you in with other priorities or someone who puts you right at the top and will go out of their way for you? Someone who takes advantage of you or someone who always notices and thanks you for every little thing you do? Someone who tries to make you do what they want you to do or someone who just wants you to be happy, regardless of what you want to do with your life? Someone who will break up with you after every big fight you get in then want to get back with you the next day or someone who will always stick with you even when times are bad? Hmmm.
Sometimes, you just shouldn't give someone a second chance. When you give a person a second chance, that's basically letting them know they got away with whatever it is they did that made them lose you the first time, whether it was cheating, lying, abusing, etc. But in the end, it's to your own discretion, right?
What's the point in staying with someone when you don't want to be with them anymore? Can someone please tell me 'cause I just don't understand why people do that.
You can't keep hoping for something that will never happen. If you've already waited for so long and it hasn't happened yet, shouldn't that be a big enough sign ?
I don't need your sympathy/guilt. That's why I haven't said anything, and that's why I still won't say anything. All I will say is this: you have absolutely no idea.
Did I miss something ? 'Cause this just doesn't add up ..
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