convo with jill that pretty much sums up my week...
BandGeekAltoSax (3:26:27 PM): HI!!!!
BirgitteGaiden (3:25:56 PM): hey
BandGeekAltoSax (3:26:41 PM): how are you?
BirgitteGaiden (3:26:13 PM): blah
BandGeekAltoSax (3:27:05 PM): oh?
BirgitteGaiden (3:26:37 PM): i hate this week
BirgitteGaiden (3:26:44 PM): i hate it i hate it i hate it
BandGeekAltoSax (3:27:28 PM): what's wrong?
BirgitteGaiden (3:28:03 PM): well, on saturday, at work, stupid mina called me into the office to tell me i was disrepectful to her and i degraded her. (friday i asked if she stole my pen in a joking tone and she LAUGHED and joked back) so she then said i offended her and i need to respect my superiors
BandGeekAltoSax (3:29:02 PM): are you serious?!
BandGeekAltoSax (3:29:04 PM): what a bitch
BirgitteGaiden (3:28:45 PM): the next day we were busy and shorthanded and she helped everyone but me and i was majorly behind
BandGeekAltoSax (3:29:43 PM): that is lame
BirgitteGaiden (3:29:06 PM): then at 10 when i was off, i decided to stay a little so cary wouldnt be by herself
BandGeekAltoSax (3:30:19 PM): yeah
BirgitteGaiden (3:29:42 PM): mina walks up, in front of customers, and says "i need you to stay another hour or im taking ur name off the schedule" in other words, im firing you
BandGeekAltoSax (3:30:32 PM): what??!!!
BirgitteGaiden (3:30:09 PM): and im looking at her like what the fuck?! you cant do that...
BirgitteGaiden (3:30:33 PM): and she was like in need to talk to you in the office in a min. and i said "well you sure do"
BirgitteGaiden (3:30:47 PM): adrian was there btw, i was serving him and i was shaking
BirgitteGaiden (3:31:01 PM): two seconds away from a serious nervous breakdown
BandGeekAltoSax (3:31:59 PM): ohh
BirgitteGaiden (3:31:21 PM): felt like i was gonna be sick and everything
BirgitteGaiden (3:31:47 PM): then i went to the office and she said "your disrespecting me again" and all that crap
BandGeekAltoSax (3:32:39 PM): WTF
BirgitteGaiden (3:32:05 PM): and i started telling her how i think she treats me wrong
BirgitteGaiden (3:32:10 PM): and picks on me
BandGeekAltoSax (3:32:52 PM): I am going to drive to cali right now, and give her a piece of my mind
BirgitteGaiden (3:32:19 PM): doesnt help like she should
BirgitteGaiden (3:32:37 PM): and how i know shes suposed to, my mom is a manager and she says they have to if its busy
BirgitteGaiden (3:32:44 PM): and minas all, well i do help
BirgitteGaiden (3:32:58 PM): so i gave her examples of all of the times she didnt
BirgitteGaiden (3:33:01 PM): and there was a lot
BirgitteGaiden (3:33:12 PM): o, and by this point i was crying. a lot
BirgitteGaiden (3:33:15 PM): and i couldnt stop
BirgitteGaiden (3:33:31 PM): anyway, she sat there and basically called me a lier
BandGeekAltoSax (3:34:19 PM): that is so stupid
BandGeekAltoSax (3:34:26 PM): Ashley, you NEED a new job...
BandGeekAltoSax (3:34:36 PM): well actually, she NEEDS to be fired...
BirgitteGaiden (3:33:57 PM): and i said my mom and adrian have come in here and heard and seen how she treats me and they both are upset
BirgitteGaiden (3:34:11 PM): and how i have ppl behind me to back me up, but she doesnt
BirgitteGaiden (3:34:26 PM): and then i was like, im going over you mina. im done with it
BirgitteGaiden (3:34:34 PM): im going to the GM first
BirgitteGaiden (3:34:42 PM): then maybe corporate
BirgitteGaiden (3:34:46 PM): and i walked away
BandGeekAltoSax (3:35:28 PM): nice!
BandGeekAltoSax (3:35:34 PM): Ashley, I love you, you're my hero
BirgitteGaiden (3:35:04 PM): i excercised amazing self control by not yelling or hitting her
BandGeekAltoSax (3:35:49 PM): lol
BirgitteGaiden (3:35:12 PM): but i was crying
BirgitteGaiden (3:35:26 PM): so then i went out and finished my tables
BirgitteGaiden (3:35:37 PM): and walked back and told her i was leaving for the night
BirgitteGaiden (3:35:44 PM): and she says, im writing you up
BirgitteGaiden (3:35:55 PM): and then, my control was gona
BirgitteGaiden (3:35:57 PM): gone
BirgitteGaiden (3:36:02 PM): i was like what?!
BirgitteGaiden (3:36:05 PM): why?
BirgitteGaiden (3:36:22 PM): so she says "you didnt suggest a fusion drink earlier"
BirgitteGaiden (3:36:46 PM): "mamud (the gm) says if ppl dont, then they get a write-up"
BandGeekAltoSax (3:37:41 PM): huh?
BirgitteGaiden (3:37:16 PM): and i said "that is ridiculous mina. and i will NOT sign that until he says that to my face"
BirgitteGaiden (3:37:48 PM): "cause u pick on me and write me up and say "dont be mad at me, i dont want to" and expect me to be ok with it"
BirgitteGaiden (3:37:52 PM): and i left
BandGeekAltoSax (3:38:42 PM): good
BirgitteGaiden (3:38:30 PM): then on monday, i was up til 2 writing that dumb research ppr
BandGeekAltoSax (3:39:17 PM):
BirgitteGaiden (3:38:53 PM): and tuesday went to school to find i had 3 english essays to write due wednesday
BandGeekAltoSax (3:39:39 PM): wow
BirgitteGaiden (3:39:17 PM): and i had to take notes on 5 books so they would be fresh in my mind for the ap test
BandGeekAltoSax (3:40:13 PM): man....
BirgitteGaiden (3:39:39 PM): and i had 5 more pages of that research ppr to write also due wednesday
BandGeekAltoSax (3:40:19 PM): *hugs* you're almost done
BirgitteGaiden (3:39:48 PM): so again, i was up til 2 writing
BirgitteGaiden (3:40:17 PM): didnt get the ful 10 pgs, 8 instead, threw up my hands and said im done, dont care, emailed it in and went to bed
BirgitteGaiden (3:40:24 PM): didnt do ANY of the english
BandGeekAltoSax (3:41:24 PM):
BirgitteGaiden (3:40:46 PM): was running on 2 consecutive nights with 2 hours sleep
BandGeekAltoSax (3:41:47 PM): shooot...
BirgitteGaiden (3:41:20 PM): went to school, found out that my teacher was just fine with 8 pgs, so ill still get a decent grade
BirgitteGaiden (3:41:27 PM): went job hunting after
BandGeekAltoSax (3:42:17 PM): oh good
BirgitteGaiden (3:42:04 PM): went to like 10 restaurants, none of which are hiring yet
BandGeekAltoSax (3:42:53 PM): wow
BirgitteGaiden (3:42:16 PM): went home and went to bed at 9
BirgitteGaiden (3:42:29 PM): woke up this morning to take my ap test at 7 am
BandGeekAltoSax (3:43:12 PM): apply for the post office for the summer, seriously, you'll get paid major
BandGeekAltoSax (3:43:17 PM): how did that go?
BirgitteGaiden (3:42:48 PM): it was really easy
BandGeekAltoSax (3:43:36 PM): good!
BirgitteGaiden (3:43:36 PM): not all the stress is gone for now...and i can breathe, but i cant stop thinking about how i have to work tomorrow and face mina cause she is working tomorrow too.
BirgitteGaiden (3:43:57 PM): now* now the stress is gone
BandGeekAltoSax (3:44:37 PM): *hugs*
BandGeekAltoSax (3:44:40 PM): hang in there
BirgitteGaiden (3:44:29 PM): ive cried so much this week...i made up for all the time i didnt cry this year.
BirgitteGaiden (3:45:05 PM): i cant handle her nemore...
BandGeekAltoSax (3:45:44 PM): ohh
BandGeekAltoSax (3:46:13 PM): I want to go kick her... hard
BirgitteGaiden (3:45:46 PM): believe me, ur not the only one
BirgitteGaiden (3:46:01 PM): my mom, my grandma, adrian, erika, bev, shannon
BandGeekAltoSax (3:46:48 PM): I told my mom how stupid she is, and she felt bad
BandGeekAltoSax (3:46:57 PM): lets get a group kicking!
BirgitteGaiden (3:25:56 PM): hey
BandGeekAltoSax (3:26:41 PM): how are you?
BirgitteGaiden (3:26:13 PM): blah
BandGeekAltoSax (3:27:05 PM): oh?
BirgitteGaiden (3:26:37 PM): i hate this week
BirgitteGaiden (3:26:44 PM): i hate it i hate it i hate it
BandGeekAltoSax (3:27:28 PM): what's wrong?
BirgitteGaiden (3:28:03 PM): well, on saturday, at work, stupid mina called me into the office to tell me i was disrepectful to her and i degraded her. (friday i asked if she stole my pen in a joking tone and she LAUGHED and joked back) so she then said i offended her and i need to respect my superiors
BandGeekAltoSax (3:29:02 PM): are you serious?!
BandGeekAltoSax (3:29:04 PM): what a bitch
BirgitteGaiden (3:28:45 PM): the next day we were busy and shorthanded and she helped everyone but me and i was majorly behind
BandGeekAltoSax (3:29:43 PM): that is lame
BirgitteGaiden (3:29:06 PM): then at 10 when i was off, i decided to stay a little so cary wouldnt be by herself
BandGeekAltoSax (3:30:19 PM): yeah
BirgitteGaiden (3:29:42 PM): mina walks up, in front of customers, and says "i need you to stay another hour or im taking ur name off the schedule" in other words, im firing you
BandGeekAltoSax (3:30:32 PM): what??!!!
BirgitteGaiden (3:30:09 PM): and im looking at her like what the fuck?! you cant do that...
BirgitteGaiden (3:30:33 PM): and she was like in need to talk to you in the office in a min. and i said "well you sure do"
BirgitteGaiden (3:30:47 PM): adrian was there btw, i was serving him and i was shaking
BirgitteGaiden (3:31:01 PM): two seconds away from a serious nervous breakdown
BandGeekAltoSax (3:31:59 PM): ohh
BirgitteGaiden (3:31:21 PM): felt like i was gonna be sick and everything
BirgitteGaiden (3:31:47 PM): then i went to the office and she said "your disrespecting me again" and all that crap
BandGeekAltoSax (3:32:39 PM): WTF
BirgitteGaiden (3:32:05 PM): and i started telling her how i think she treats me wrong
BirgitteGaiden (3:32:10 PM): and picks on me
BandGeekAltoSax (3:32:52 PM): I am going to drive to cali right now, and give her a piece of my mind
BirgitteGaiden (3:32:19 PM): doesnt help like she should
BirgitteGaiden (3:32:37 PM): and how i know shes suposed to, my mom is a manager and she says they have to if its busy
BirgitteGaiden (3:32:44 PM): and minas all, well i do help
BirgitteGaiden (3:32:58 PM): so i gave her examples of all of the times she didnt
BirgitteGaiden (3:33:01 PM): and there was a lot
BirgitteGaiden (3:33:12 PM): o, and by this point i was crying. a lot
BirgitteGaiden (3:33:15 PM): and i couldnt stop
BirgitteGaiden (3:33:31 PM): anyway, she sat there and basically called me a lier
BandGeekAltoSax (3:34:19 PM): that is so stupid
BandGeekAltoSax (3:34:26 PM): Ashley, you NEED a new job...
BandGeekAltoSax (3:34:36 PM): well actually, she NEEDS to be fired...
BirgitteGaiden (3:33:57 PM): and i said my mom and adrian have come in here and heard and seen how she treats me and they both are upset
BirgitteGaiden (3:34:11 PM): and how i have ppl behind me to back me up, but she doesnt
BirgitteGaiden (3:34:26 PM): and then i was like, im going over you mina. im done with it
BirgitteGaiden (3:34:34 PM): im going to the GM first
BirgitteGaiden (3:34:42 PM): then maybe corporate
BirgitteGaiden (3:34:46 PM): and i walked away
BandGeekAltoSax (3:35:28 PM): nice!
BandGeekAltoSax (3:35:34 PM): Ashley, I love you, you're my hero
BirgitteGaiden (3:35:04 PM): i excercised amazing self control by not yelling or hitting her
BandGeekAltoSax (3:35:49 PM): lol
BirgitteGaiden (3:35:12 PM): but i was crying
BirgitteGaiden (3:35:26 PM): so then i went out and finished my tables
BirgitteGaiden (3:35:37 PM): and walked back and told her i was leaving for the night
BirgitteGaiden (3:35:44 PM): and she says, im writing you up
BirgitteGaiden (3:35:55 PM): and then, my control was gona
BirgitteGaiden (3:35:57 PM): gone
BirgitteGaiden (3:36:02 PM): i was like what?!
BirgitteGaiden (3:36:05 PM): why?
BirgitteGaiden (3:36:22 PM): so she says "you didnt suggest a fusion drink earlier"
BirgitteGaiden (3:36:46 PM): "mamud (the gm) says if ppl dont, then they get a write-up"
BandGeekAltoSax (3:37:41 PM): huh?
BirgitteGaiden (3:37:16 PM): and i said "that is ridiculous mina. and i will NOT sign that until he says that to my face"
BirgitteGaiden (3:37:48 PM): "cause u pick on me and write me up and say "dont be mad at me, i dont want to" and expect me to be ok with it"
BirgitteGaiden (3:37:52 PM): and i left
BandGeekAltoSax (3:38:42 PM): good
BirgitteGaiden (3:38:30 PM): then on monday, i was up til 2 writing that dumb research ppr
BandGeekAltoSax (3:39:17 PM):
BirgitteGaiden (3:38:53 PM): and tuesday went to school to find i had 3 english essays to write due wednesday
BandGeekAltoSax (3:39:39 PM): wow
BirgitteGaiden (3:39:17 PM): and i had to take notes on 5 books so they would be fresh in my mind for the ap test
BandGeekAltoSax (3:40:13 PM): man....
BirgitteGaiden (3:39:39 PM): and i had 5 more pages of that research ppr to write also due wednesday
BandGeekAltoSax (3:40:19 PM): *hugs* you're almost done
BirgitteGaiden (3:39:48 PM): so again, i was up til 2 writing
BirgitteGaiden (3:40:17 PM): didnt get the ful 10 pgs, 8 instead, threw up my hands and said im done, dont care, emailed it in and went to bed
BirgitteGaiden (3:40:24 PM): didnt do ANY of the english
BandGeekAltoSax (3:41:24 PM):
BirgitteGaiden (3:40:46 PM): was running on 2 consecutive nights with 2 hours sleep
BandGeekAltoSax (3:41:47 PM): shooot...
BirgitteGaiden (3:41:20 PM): went to school, found out that my teacher was just fine with 8 pgs, so ill still get a decent grade
BirgitteGaiden (3:41:27 PM): went job hunting after
BandGeekAltoSax (3:42:17 PM): oh good
BirgitteGaiden (3:42:04 PM): went to like 10 restaurants, none of which are hiring yet
BandGeekAltoSax (3:42:53 PM): wow
BirgitteGaiden (3:42:16 PM): went home and went to bed at 9
BirgitteGaiden (3:42:29 PM): woke up this morning to take my ap test at 7 am
BandGeekAltoSax (3:43:12 PM): apply for the post office for the summer, seriously, you'll get paid major
BandGeekAltoSax (3:43:17 PM): how did that go?
BirgitteGaiden (3:42:48 PM): it was really easy
BandGeekAltoSax (3:43:36 PM): good!
BirgitteGaiden (3:43:36 PM): not all the stress is gone for now...and i can breathe, but i cant stop thinking about how i have to work tomorrow and face mina cause she is working tomorrow too.
BirgitteGaiden (3:43:57 PM): now* now the stress is gone
BandGeekAltoSax (3:44:37 PM): *hugs*
BandGeekAltoSax (3:44:40 PM): hang in there
BirgitteGaiden (3:44:29 PM): ive cried so much this week...i made up for all the time i didnt cry this year.
BirgitteGaiden (3:45:05 PM): i cant handle her nemore...
BandGeekAltoSax (3:45:44 PM): ohh
BandGeekAltoSax (3:46:13 PM): I want to go kick her... hard
BirgitteGaiden (3:45:46 PM): believe me, ur not the only one
BirgitteGaiden (3:46:01 PM): my mom, my grandma, adrian, erika, bev, shannon
BandGeekAltoSax (3:46:48 PM): I told my mom how stupid she is, and she felt bad
BandGeekAltoSax (3:46:57 PM): lets get a group kicking!