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I finally saw Mike today at work. As I had expected, he was pretty much clueless-he didn't think not calling would bother me. The "confrontation" went something like this:
Me: "So are you going to give me a reason that you didn't call me this week?"
Mike: Shrugs and half closes eyes while looking away, which he does when he doesn't know something or doesn't have an answer.
Me: "So you're not even going to give me an excuse?"
Mike: shrugs again
Me: Good reason
And I turned and walked out of the kitchen. And didn't go back in for half an hour. And when I did, I pretty much ignored him and did whatever I had to do. I could tell he felt bad, because he would look over at me and smile a little. But I didn't smile back-I would just leave. Eventually, I got bored because it wasn't busy, and I didn't want to lave things the way they were, so I went in and talked to him and Dillon. After a discussion about brocolli, things were okay. He walked me out to my car, and we talked for awhile. I might be seeing him tomorrow, and he said he would call me tomorrow. I asked if he was going home tonight, and he said he was and that he would call me tonight. I said that I was worried when I hadn't heard from him, and he said that I didn't leave any messages, and that he checked. I didn't defend that one well...I could have left a message, but I didn't think he would get it, since he didn't get the one I left last time. But he said he wasn't home much...And I did send him one on myspace, even though I didn't expect him to get it.
So he was busy, and he does have a lot going on, but I still wish he had called just to say hi and let me know everything is okay. When he calls tonight (and he had better) I will fully explain why I was annoyed/mad/confused/worried/sad/etc. I am really glad that things are okay.
And he finally fixed his brakes...
Me: "So are you going to give me a reason that you didn't call me this week?"
Mike: Shrugs and half closes eyes while looking away, which he does when he doesn't know something or doesn't have an answer.
Me: "So you're not even going to give me an excuse?"
Mike: shrugs again
Me: Good reason
And I turned and walked out of the kitchen. And didn't go back in for half an hour. And when I did, I pretty much ignored him and did whatever I had to do. I could tell he felt bad, because he would look over at me and smile a little. But I didn't smile back-I would just leave. Eventually, I got bored because it wasn't busy, and I didn't want to lave things the way they were, so I went in and talked to him and Dillon. After a discussion about brocolli, things were okay. He walked me out to my car, and we talked for awhile. I might be seeing him tomorrow, and he said he would call me tomorrow. I asked if he was going home tonight, and he said he was and that he would call me tonight. I said that I was worried when I hadn't heard from him, and he said that I didn't leave any messages, and that he checked. I didn't defend that one well...I could have left a message, but I didn't think he would get it, since he didn't get the one I left last time. But he said he wasn't home much...And I did send him one on myspace, even though I didn't expect him to get it.
So he was busy, and he does have a lot going on, but I still wish he had called just to say hi and let me know everything is okay. When he calls tonight (and he had better) I will fully explain why I was annoyed/mad/confused/worried/sad/etc. I am really glad that things are okay.
And he finally fixed his brakes...