cjolie 2007-08-08 05:20 pm UTC (link) "trying to fucking figure that out!!! maybe cuz i wouldnt give him head . . . which he was begging for. but honestly, no guy ive had sex with has EVER done that to me. he said i was too cocky and that i wasnt the shit." <<<<<
o my god sweetie thanks for the insight but no matter how promiscuous you think i am dont you dare throw it in my face like that. first of all, you posted anonymously, so it doesnt say much for you that you cant even fess up to who you are. and you definitely should not judge because ive only had sex with 6 guys. however i do agree that i am not experienced enough to know what the best sex is, and my men although they are good are not pros yet either.
finally it DOES NOT FLY that you seem to blame me for the way that he acted. even if id had hundreds of men I DO NOT deserve to be treated like that. its his shit, not mine.
Someone who posts anon doesn't respect their own opinions, so you shouldn't listen. You don't deserve ANYTHING inappropriate to happen to you sexually, whatever your age, and however many guys you've slept with. I think this person should reserve their words for the 12-13-14-year-olds who have sex. She is right that you should wait for someone special though, because sex is so sensitive and you have so much potential to get hurt.
hey thanks so much. totally agree anons are way too insecure. its probably some freak who cant get laid or something. but ya i agree that i should wait now. i had no idea that a guy would actually hurt ME like that. now that i look back i should have expected it but it still hurts and he should burn in hell
BTW...it is actually REALLY easy for any moderately attractive woman "to get laid". There is no trick to it and it does not make you special. There are men that screw blow up dolls and holes in the wall. All I am saying is to be a strong girl treat yourself with respect. Don't F____ someone that you have only known 24 hours and expect to be treated well or for him to call you. I am sure that you are a beautiful girl that deserves a lot better. And you are right about the guy. Guys that are 19 should NOT be having sex with 16 year olds. It's not to say that yourger girls should not go out with older guys---just that older guys that should be dating college girls generally have a few issues when they are messing around with girls that can barely drive. There is a night and day difference as you will learn. Good for you to tell him off.
You are right that it is no excuse for the way he treated you. My point is that it should not be totally unexpected. 6 different partners by the age of sixteen is a lot.
cjolie
2007-08-08 05:20 pm UTC (link)
"trying to fucking figure that out!!! maybe cuz i wouldnt give him head . . . which he was begging for. but honestly, no guy ive had sex with has EVER done that to me. he said i was too cocky and that i wasnt the shit." <<<<<
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finally it DOES NOT FLY that you seem to blame me for the way that he acted. even if id had hundreds of men I DO NOT deserve to be treated like that. its his shit, not mine.
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You don't deserve ANYTHING inappropriate to happen to you sexually, whatever your age, and however many guys you've slept with.
I think this person should reserve their words for the 12-13-14-year-olds who have sex. She is right that you should wait for someone special though, because sex is so sensitive and you have so much potential to get hurt.
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