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Life is funny. Inparticular the funny part about life I have been thinking about lately is perspective. On people. How your view of somebody changes over time.
Luda ~ When I first met Luda is was to play D&D and WoD with Jon an I. Jon's BFF, Kyle, knew Adam and Adam knew Nick, Devin, Brianna and Luda: everyone that formed our D&D/WoD group for the next few months. At first I only saw Luda when we were playing those two games but as we started playing them less, I saw him most of the rare times I went with Jon to hang out at Kyle's. During my first few months of knowing Luda, I found out he was engaged. I thought wow. This guys is four years younger than me, but he is getting married. And he seemed so happy when you asked him about the engagement too. I was really happy for him. I never met his finacee, Caitlin. She went to school in New York, but at the time I thought she was a really lucky girl. Luda was kind, caring, funny...he knew what he wanted in life and was working hard to achieve that. Not just for him either. For his future family too.
How I view Caitlin now is different too. No one that talks about her ever says anything nice about her. They all say mean things. And when I hear stories of how she treated Luda, I get so angry. I don't really think she's lucky anymore. I think she WAS lucky to have Luda in general but especially to have Luda want to marry her. To want to be with her forever. She threw it away and she didn't even really have a reason. Not one that she provided. She doesn't even want to see him when she comes back home to visit.
Anyway, my big point when I started writing was that I thought Caitlin was a lucky girl to have Luda. Now I am the lucky girl to have Luda. I am so grateful for him. He makes me smile everyday and I really need the smiles. I don't have much else.
Luda ~ When I first met Luda is was to play D&D and WoD with Jon an I. Jon's BFF, Kyle, knew Adam and Adam knew Nick, Devin, Brianna and Luda: everyone that formed our D&D/WoD group for the next few months. At first I only saw Luda when we were playing those two games but as we started playing them less, I saw him most of the rare times I went with Jon to hang out at Kyle's. During my first few months of knowing Luda, I found out he was engaged. I thought wow. This guys is four years younger than me, but he is getting married. And he seemed so happy when you asked him about the engagement too. I was really happy for him. I never met his finacee, Caitlin. She went to school in New York, but at the time I thought she was a really lucky girl. Luda was kind, caring, funny...he knew what he wanted in life and was working hard to achieve that. Not just for him either. For his future family too.
How I view Caitlin now is different too. No one that talks about her ever says anything nice about her. They all say mean things. And when I hear stories of how she treated Luda, I get so angry. I don't really think she's lucky anymore. I think she WAS lucky to have Luda in general but especially to have Luda want to marry her. To want to be with her forever. She threw it away and she didn't even really have a reason. Not one that she provided. She doesn't even want to see him when she comes back home to visit.
Anyway, my big point when I started writing was that I thought Caitlin was a lucky girl to have Luda. Now I am the lucky girl to have Luda. I am so grateful for him. He makes me smile everyday and I really need the smiles. I don't have much else.