Are like none of you getting my comments or something? What's with the silence? I've written a couple o' good entries and commented a mucho. Comment back you silly whabbits!
I had to comment here on your last public post, because apparently you took me off your friends list. I was debating on just saying nothing and deleting you as well, but I thought better of it and decided to try and resolve this with you. I didn't mean to offend you about your friend. I actually didn't even know she was your friend, I just saw the picture and had no clue who she was. Had I known that, I would have said nothing and kept my negative opinion to myself. I don't feel there's a need for either of us to be hostile. Afterall, we are adults and should therefore act like adults. There was a better way for you to let me know that I upset you so much without becomming extremely rude and ignorant. I am not jealous of your friend whatsoever, I don't even know her. I can't be jealous of someone I don't even know. I don't find her attreactive and that's that. I am very secure with my looks and don't feel that the amount of attention I receive or don't receive has anything to do with anything. I realize that I said some things about your friend that you didn't want to hear and again, I appologize for that. In all fairness, you asked why I didn't find her attractive and I told you. I'm sorry you weren't prepared to hear and deal with what I had to say and I actually should have said nothing at all and left it at that. If you want to keep me off your friends list, I guess that's your choice. It's not like we know each other in person, so it wouldn't really affect me in any way. I just thought I'd appologize for offending you and saying some things I should have kept to myself. With all that said, I hope this issue can be resolved and that even if you don't include me back on your friends list, that we're ok now.
You over stepped the borderline in what would be appropriate to say and what would not. There are ways to get your point across w/o being insultive for no good reason. I can not believe it would not occur to you to bit your tongue in consideration to what you said. I mean, how old are you?
The same would go for you too. Like you said, there are better ways to get a point across without being insultive. Not that it's a good excuse, but I said what I said because I felt that you were baiting me. Your post asked if anyone thought she was hot or something along those lines. I had no clue who she was, but I gave my opinion, only to have you come at me calling me insane and asking what planet I was from. Then when I went further into explaining my reasons for not finding her attractive, you put me down left right and centre. Just as you ask me how old I am, I could ask you the same thing for how you resonded to me both times. When I first gave my opinion, I wasn't trying to be rude or ignorant. Everyone has different tastes. We were both in the wrong in how we reacted to each other. I may have stepped over the line in what to say and what not to say, we both did. I've appologized many times and now I'm done appologizing. If I had known she was a friend, I wouldn't have said anything.
Unfortunately computers aren't great at conveying the way someone is expressing themselves. When I asked you "what planet you were from?" and to explain your reasoning I was not giving you the floor to say whatever was on the top of your mind. I expected you to respond at most with something like she just isn't my taste. NOT with insult upon insult about my friend. And had you read more than a couple of my journal entries prior to that one you would've very clearly KNOWN she was my friend. But even if she were NOT my friend, there is no way what you said was 'okay'. How can you even wonder why I 'put you down left right and center'??? You called my friend a slut and presumed she was a strung out native druggie! How is that NOT insultive. Really if you can't understand that I have nothing else to say. Anyone, and everyone that knows about this little scuffle that we had has agreed with me on this.
"We both did."
Don't presume to speak for me. I'm not appologizing for sticking up for my friends.
How was I supposed to know that she was your friend? I'm very rarely ever on here. It's not like I go back through all your old journal entries to read every single little thing you've ever written. I've already apologized many times. I'm not going to continue to apologize. Secondly, I wasn't trying to get an apology out of you. I was trying to get a point across that just as you said, there's better ways to get a point across without being insultive. Maybe you should listen to your own advice. So as I clearly upset and offended you, there was also a better way for you to go about getting that point across without being insultive. Two wrongs don't make a right. I don't blame you for wanting to stick up for your friend, any good friend would. And at first, I did only say she wasn't my taste. Like you said, computers aren't great at conveying the way someone is trying to express themselves. When you asked me what planet I'm from and asked if I was insane, I took that as a slap in the face and retaliated. (which I shouldn't have, I should have just let it go)I found it to be rude of you as well to post a picture, ask for people's opinions and then insult them when you hear a response you don't want to hear that wasn't put forth as rude or insultive. I didn't say I thought she was a drugged out native or a whore. I said that she reminded me of some of the drugged out native girls that reside in my area. That's what they dress like, that's what they look like. In my area, there is a HUGE problem with native people and it's pretty scary. I've said it many times already, I should have kept it to myself even after you asked me why I wasn't attracted to her. But why would you have expected me to say that she just isn't my taste after I had already said so? Obviously you knew I'd go deeper into why I didn't find her attractive. You set yourself up to hear what I had to say and then got pissed off when I gave you my opinion that YOU asked for. Lastly, I don't really care if your friends agree with you or not. They have nothing to do with this and their opinion doesn't matter to me. The only thing about this situation that matters to me is what's being said between you and I. If you can't accept my apology after apology and the fact that I'm trying to resolve this with you and make amends, then fine. There's no need for you to keep going on and on about something I've already apologized for numerous times and continue to put me down. Obviously you're not willing to accept my apologies and that's your prerogative. We'll leave it at that.
If you want to keep me off your friends list, I guess that's your choice. It's not like we know each other in person, so it wouldn't really affect me in any way. I just thought I'd appologize for offending you and saying some things I should have kept to myself. With all that said, I hope this issue can be resolved and that even if you don't include me back on your friends list, that we're ok now.
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"We both did."
Don't presume to speak for me. I'm not appologizing for sticking up for my friends.
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