She says it takes an open mind. I think she means an open relationship.

[cinnamonsins]

Even though the skies are blue
Don't we let the sun shine through
Because he is a jerk I guess
Does that make him love you less?

Could you forgive that boy?
Could you find some part of your aching heart
to forgive that boy?
Could you take him home?
Could you hold him in your arms
unti the morning comes?
And when he's all cried out
Could you be that girl?

What if it were you who fell?
Would he have you go to hell?
Because he is a man, that's true
Now wasn't she a woman too?

Yeah...