on laziness & the lesbian scene in Johannesburg
Holiday at home in South Africa, visiting the parents. It's cold but I'm taking full advantage of the laziness that comes with cold weather. Tea & books & movies. I've been spending a lot of time with my sister... cooking, shopping and basically being a granny.
As far as going out, we've been to a few clubs and bars. Ok I lie...maybe like twice in the 2 weeks that i've been here (i told you i'm a granny). I'm just not really feeling being pestered by men in straights bars at the moment. My mood is too good and too relaxed to want to deal with ass pinching and oogling. Guys just never seem to get the hint...all that male entitlement leads them into believing that it is not possible that a girl does not want them. Ok so I'm being a bitch now, but really, a lot of them are like this. It pisses me off.
The lesbian community here is pretty underground, it's difficult for me to find what's good because I don't live here anymore and because most of my friends here are straight since I wasn't really out before moving to NYC. :/ My sister and I actually went out the other night and saw 2 lesbians and joked about wanting to seal off the area with red tape.
I know that there is a scene somewhere and I know that I could find it if I really tried BUT maybe I'm just lazy. Maybe I'm enjoying my days of tea, books and laziness too much.
As far as going out, we've been to a few clubs and bars. Ok I lie...maybe like twice in the 2 weeks that i've been here (i told you i'm a granny). I'm just not really feeling being pestered by men in straights bars at the moment. My mood is too good and too relaxed to want to deal with ass pinching and oogling. Guys just never seem to get the hint...all that male entitlement leads them into believing that it is not possible that a girl does not want them. Ok so I'm being a bitch now, but really, a lot of them are like this. It pisses me off.
The lesbian community here is pretty underground, it's difficult for me to find what's good because I don't live here anymore and because most of my friends here are straight since I wasn't really out before moving to NYC. :/ My sister and I actually went out the other night and saw 2 lesbians and joked about wanting to seal off the area with red tape.
I know that there is a scene somewhere and I know that I could find it if I really tried BUT maybe I'm just lazy. Maybe I'm enjoying my days of tea, books and laziness too much.