I just read this and if I don't say what I think, i feel that i'll be restless for a long long time.
So I shall say it k ? =] I hope you take everything with a pinch of salt.
Firstly; You said that if a fan can't support Jonghyun with Shin Se Kyung, she isn't a true fan right ?
Well the thing is, that's a little harsh really =] . I mean, I won't lie, I am not happy for them. How can I be ? I won't lie to myself, most importantly. =] and well, It's not like I am infuriated with him either =] If he's happy, then it's alright. Thats all.
And saying that I am not a true fan if i can't support their relationship, eh. That hurts.
If he is truly happy with SSK, very well =] Then he should be with her and all. But you see, as an idol, he knew that all of these no dating crap would come along with the fame. In a way, he saw this coming. =]
And I am not really speaking for myself. More so for the Korean fans.
Because well, SM have portrayed them in a very sex appeal kinda way. You know ? and When you like him and all, trust me. Liking him in thaaatt way comes along too =] and them feeling upset with him dating her is only human right ? =]
Can't blame them either. And those who are fine with everything, good for you =]
Secondly, when you say that if I can't ship Jongkyung, I shouldn't bother being a shawol, a blinger ?
Major ouch. =[
Because, I can tell you right now. I know he's happy with her and all. Good for them. but i won't lie to myself and say that i'm happy for them, because, hmm, no i am not. But hahaha, don't get me wrong. It's plain stupid to anti her or blame her for anything. I'm not doing that either XD
It's just, I can't ship them, I just can't. You know ? =] Just like how you don't like OnTae.
But that's just my opinion you know? It doesn't affect them in any way, because I'm not doing any harm.
Saying that we should be supportive and happy, that too. I just, you know, in a perfect world, it would be possible =] But saying that we should, haha it's kinda .. yeah. It's difficult for some of us, easier for others =]
And I think as long as you stay with your morals without harming others, its alright. And I know that is what I am doing =]
So please don't say that =[ It really threw daggers at my heart. Everyone is different, we can't except everyone to have the same reaction and opinions =]
I respect your opinion though =] And I know where you're coming from. No worries. I'm flexible. And Good that you are dealing with it well =]
haha it's okay. i know it's pretty harsh but i didn't really mean it in that way. i guess i was in a spur of the moment (or however you say it) lol fail!
first off, i just want to say that i'm REALL REALLY SORRY for hurting you. i even hurted myself for saying all of that because it's really harsh. and i didn't really mean it to put it in that way, i should've put it in a nicer way.
but what i really want to get across is that, don't go calling jjongie's gf a slut or other names because that is just low. i know you're not one to be doing that so i hope you don't take to the heart. i'm saying it for those who don't support the relationship AND saying bad things about the girl at the same time.
i understand that you're hurt and you're not going around calling his gf names so i hope you know i'm not targeting this at you or others who don't go low on calling his gf names and stuff.
I'm haha not supposed to be here but heck.
I just read this and if I don't say what I think, i feel that i'll be restless for a long long time.
So I shall say it k ? =] I hope you take everything with a pinch of salt.
Firstly;
You said that if a fan can't support Jonghyun with Shin Se Kyung, she isn't a true fan right ?
Well the thing is, that's a little harsh really =] . I mean, I won't lie, I am not happy for them. How can I be ? I won't lie to myself, most importantly. =] and well, It's not like I am infuriated with him either =] If he's happy, then it's alright. Thats all.
And saying that I am not a true fan if i can't support their relationship, eh. That hurts.
If he is truly happy with SSK, very well =] Then he should be with her and all. But you see, as an idol, he knew that all of these no dating crap would come along with the fame.
In a way, he saw this coming. =]
And I am not really speaking for myself. More so for the Korean fans.
Because well, SM have portrayed them in a very sex appeal kinda way. You know ? and When you like him and all, trust me. Liking him in thaaatt way comes along too =] and them feeling upset with him dating her is only human right ? =]
Can't blame them either. And those who are fine with everything, good for you =]
Secondly, when you say that if I can't ship Jongkyung, I shouldn't bother being a shawol, a blinger ?
Major ouch. =[
Because, I can tell you right now. I know he's happy with her and all.
Good for them. but i won't lie to myself and say that i'm happy for them, because, hmm, no i am not. But hahaha, don't get me wrong. It's plain stupid to anti her or blame her for anything. I'm not doing that either XD
It's just, I can't ship them, I just can't. You know ? =] Just like how you don't like OnTae.
But that's just my opinion you know?
It doesn't affect them in any way, because I'm not doing any harm.
Saying that we should be supportive and happy, that too. I just, you know, in a perfect world, it would be possible =] But saying that we should, haha it's kinda .. yeah. It's difficult for some of us, easier for others =]
And I think as long as you stay with your morals without harming others, its alright. And I know that is what I am doing =]
So please don't say that =[ It really threw daggers at my heart. Everyone is different, we can't except everyone to have the same reaction and opinions =]
I respect your opinion though =] And I know where you're coming from. No worries. I'm flexible. And Good that you are dealing with it well =]
Love you and miss you ♥
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Ah, but it shows that I really wanna say all of this =]
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i know it's pretty harsh but i didn't really mean it in that way.
i guess i was in a spur of the moment (or however you say it) lol fail!
first off, i just want to say that i'm REALL REALLY SORRY for hurting you.
i even hurted myself for saying all of that because it's really harsh.
and i didn't really mean it to put it in that way,
i should've put it in a nicer way.
but what i really want to get across is that,
don't go calling jjongie's gf a slut or other names
because that is just low.
i know you're not one to be doing that so i hope you don't take to the heart.
i'm saying it for those who don't support the relationship
AND saying bad things about the girl at the same time.
i understand that you're hurt
and you're not going around calling his gf names
so i hope you know i'm not targeting this at you or others who don't go low on calling his gf names and stuff.
but aww, I LOVE AND MISS YOU TOO!<3
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