The L List 20/365: You Never Forget.....
....your best time.
Ok, so maybe this won't be my BEST time. ;) and by that, I mean, the hottest, sexiest, most erotic sexual experience I've had, but that's none of your business.
:P
This is actually, well, about the most satisfying, sexy, fulfilling sexual experience I've had....and surprisingly, it's with my husband.
About 5 years ago, Jim and were going to a really bad patch. We were growing in different directions but our relationship was stagnant.
Now keep in mind, Jim and I have never been really good at sex with each other. It's just a fact. We are both good at sex, but our styles with each other (as with many things) tend to not mesh well.
It's fine but it meant we never really had sex often.
So, we weren't getting along and came to a crossroads. We broke up......for 2 hours.
It's true. After we cooled down, we decided to go to counseling instead and it was the BEST thing we ever did.
Through counseling we worked through a lot of our issues together. We discussed our styles for sex and even had sexual homework (that part was fun).
Well, after about a year of counseling, Jim surprised me for my birthday, with a trip to Hawaii for the weekend.
Staying at the Royal Hawaiian, we had out getaway. By being away from my work, the gallery, home and all the pressures that went with it and going into the trip with no expectations, we had the best time ever and we were able to focus on each other.
It was great, we fucked like rabbits.
Now again, keep in mind, we never had a lot of sex before, but this weekend, we more than made up for it. We were giddy. We fucked repeated all day. We fucked in public places. We spread ourselves all over the island (sorry y'all)
It was great!
We came home with a new resolve and saw each other in a new light and really enjoyed it. It was wonderful......for about 6 months.
and then The Kid came.
sigh.
Ok, so maybe this won't be my BEST time. ;) and by that, I mean, the hottest, sexiest, most erotic sexual experience I've had, but that's none of your business.
:P
This is actually, well, about the most satisfying, sexy, fulfilling sexual experience I've had....and surprisingly, it's with my husband.
About 5 years ago, Jim and were going to a really bad patch. We were growing in different directions but our relationship was stagnant.
Now keep in mind, Jim and I have never been really good at sex with each other. It's just a fact. We are both good at sex, but our styles with each other (as with many things) tend to not mesh well.
It's fine but it meant we never really had sex often.
So, we weren't getting along and came to a crossroads. We broke up......for 2 hours.
It's true. After we cooled down, we decided to go to counseling instead and it was the BEST thing we ever did.
Through counseling we worked through a lot of our issues together. We discussed our styles for sex and even had sexual homework (that part was fun).
Well, after about a year of counseling, Jim surprised me for my birthday, with a trip to Hawaii for the weekend.
Staying at the Royal Hawaiian, we had out getaway. By being away from my work, the gallery, home and all the pressures that went with it and going into the trip with no expectations, we had the best time ever and we were able to focus on each other.
It was great, we fucked like rabbits.
Now again, keep in mind, we never had a lot of sex before, but this weekend, we more than made up for it. We were giddy. We fucked repeated all day. We fucked in public places. We spread ourselves all over the island (sorry y'all)
It was great!
We came home with a new resolve and saw each other in a new light and really enjoyed it. It was wonderful......for about 6 months.
and then The Kid came.
sigh.