Another day in paradise... alone
I booked a lot of business today, it was a good day. I also stopped in at Rio Wraps and visited Karen. Her store isn't open yet, but I heard that everyone is getting fired or quitting from Boston Market and they are having lots of problems. That makes me happy.
What doesn't make me happy are snide assumptions. For example, today at work when I was working with Rebekah (Sarah's sister) she told me that her cousin had a great time with me at Tiki Bob's on Friday. Backstory is I went to Tiki Bob's before the whole Wingate Inn incident. I didn't really want to go, I was very tired but Sarah and her cousin were very, very insistent that I go...so I went. Sarah's cousin was such a hard core booty dancer that if we danced even five minutes longer, she would have been pregnant. Then we had a brief kiss on the dance floor that lasted all of 3 seconds. It was probably a mistake on my part, but I went with it. I got her number too. When I mentioned to Rebekah today in response to her comment about her cousin about the kiss she told me that she didn't know about it. Oops. Oh, well. But then she got upset because she said that it wasn't nice because her cousin knows about what is going on with me and Sarah. Sqqqrrrrrr! Hold up...! What's going on with me and Sarah? Nothing. We are just friends. Or so I thought made abundantly clear. Apparantly she still has some semblance of feelings for me. It's just hard for me to substantiate a relationship with her. One, I made the mistake of telling her my true feelings that I liked her before Christmas in the terms "... I would like to have someone in a relationship to be just like you in every way." I really like her personality and she is sweet... sometimes. My problem with her is that she wears her heart on her sleeve. If I am working and I don't directly interact with her because I am busy, she gets mad at me and gets huffy all day. Two, I like to joke around with her the way she jokes with me but if I hit a sensitive spot or she doesn't want to joke, she hits me, kicks me, or pinches me hard. To be honest, I don't like anyone touching me like that - would anyone else? It turns into this big thing because I don't like the way she makes me feel sometimes. I guess she just reads too far into things. Like today, I was trying to take care of a guest on the phone and I was walking out of my office when Sarah was walking in and she got mad that I wouldn't stand there. I guess I should listen more, but it's difficult because she comes down to visit me a lot just to talk and when I try to call or do work, she gets mad and makes remarks. I don't like the way that makes me feel.
Evan started working today. It's kinda funny how certain people follow me around. Evan worked with me at Clarkston Boston Market then went to Waterford with me. Now he works at the hotel. April and I worked at Target together, now she does a wonderful job at the hotel... it's bizarre.
Well, I guess that's it. I am really sad that I haven't gotten the pictures emailed from Julie or Chris yet. I was really looking forward to seeing them. Oh well, they'll find time for me somewhere...
Oh yea, Dave and I talked today a few times. He is really bummed out because he and his boyfriend lost the house they were working on getting. Sadly, it's because of their mortgage broker being an asshole. I told him that if he saved up now, in 6 months they would have a bigger chunk to put down on a nicer house. That cheered him up a little bit. He goes on vacation next week and said he wants to hang out. I'm a bit surprised. He also asked me to take time off in the summer to go boating with him...we'll see where this goes.
Well, stay tuned. We'll see how it all goes.
What doesn't make me happy are snide assumptions. For example, today at work when I was working with Rebekah (Sarah's sister) she told me that her cousin had a great time with me at Tiki Bob's on Friday. Backstory is I went to Tiki Bob's before the whole Wingate Inn incident. I didn't really want to go, I was very tired but Sarah and her cousin were very, very insistent that I go...so I went. Sarah's cousin was such a hard core booty dancer that if we danced even five minutes longer, she would have been pregnant. Then we had a brief kiss on the dance floor that lasted all of 3 seconds. It was probably a mistake on my part, but I went with it. I got her number too. When I mentioned to Rebekah today in response to her comment about her cousin about the kiss she told me that she didn't know about it. Oops. Oh, well. But then she got upset because she said that it wasn't nice because her cousin knows about what is going on with me and Sarah. Sqqqrrrrrr! Hold up...! What's going on with me and Sarah? Nothing. We are just friends. Or so I thought made abundantly clear. Apparantly she still has some semblance of feelings for me. It's just hard for me to substantiate a relationship with her. One, I made the mistake of telling her my true feelings that I liked her before Christmas in the terms "... I would like to have someone in a relationship to be just like you in every way." I really like her personality and she is sweet... sometimes. My problem with her is that she wears her heart on her sleeve. If I am working and I don't directly interact with her because I am busy, she gets mad at me and gets huffy all day. Two, I like to joke around with her the way she jokes with me but if I hit a sensitive spot or she doesn't want to joke, she hits me, kicks me, or pinches me hard. To be honest, I don't like anyone touching me like that - would anyone else? It turns into this big thing because I don't like the way she makes me feel sometimes. I guess she just reads too far into things. Like today, I was trying to take care of a guest on the phone and I was walking out of my office when Sarah was walking in and she got mad that I wouldn't stand there. I guess I should listen more, but it's difficult because she comes down to visit me a lot just to talk and when I try to call or do work, she gets mad and makes remarks. I don't like the way that makes me feel.
Evan started working today. It's kinda funny how certain people follow me around. Evan worked with me at Clarkston Boston Market then went to Waterford with me. Now he works at the hotel. April and I worked at Target together, now she does a wonderful job at the hotel... it's bizarre.
Well, I guess that's it. I am really sad that I haven't gotten the pictures emailed from Julie or Chris yet. I was really looking forward to seeing them. Oh well, they'll find time for me somewhere...
Oh yea, Dave and I talked today a few times. He is really bummed out because he and his boyfriend lost the house they were working on getting. Sadly, it's because of their mortgage broker being an asshole. I told him that if he saved up now, in 6 months they would have a bigger chunk to put down on a nicer house. That cheered him up a little bit. He goes on vacation next week and said he wants to hang out. I'm a bit surprised. He also asked me to take time off in the summer to go boating with him...we'll see where this goes.
Well, stay tuned. We'll see how it all goes.