don't worry too much about pushing people away, everybody does it at one point or another, whether they're pushing away one person or a group of people. if those people really care about you, they'll understand you need space and they'll wait for you and always be there.
as for the best friend thing, maybe you should get to know some of your friends a little better. perhaps one of them or even a few of them might have the potential to be someone who you can fall back on and tell them everything. or maybe you should meet some new people. get a group of friends together and have them invite some people you don't know or something like that.
and about "it". you'll never know if you lost it until you take a risk and put yourself out there. there's a lot of things that i didn't do/say that i still hate myself for, and ended up leading to some of the not-so-good things i did. i'm not saying it'll lead to bad things, but it happens. at least if you do try and "it" doesn't turn out like you want it to, you don't have to live with the regret of never knowing.
that probably didn't help much, if at all, but that's just my take on things. i'm really no good at this kinda stuff...i guess it's just something to think about.
as for the best friend thing, maybe you should get to know some of your friends a little better. perhaps one of them or even a few of them might have the potential to be someone who you can fall back on and tell them everything. or maybe you should meet some new people. get a group of friends together and have them invite some people you don't know or something like that.
and about "it". you'll never know if you lost it until you take a risk and put yourself out there. there's a lot of things that i didn't do/say that i still hate myself for, and ended up leading to some of the not-so-good things i did. i'm not saying it'll lead to bad things, but it happens. at least if you do try and "it" doesn't turn out like you want it to, you don't have to live with the regret of never knowing.
that probably didn't help much, if at all, but that's just my take on things. i'm really no good at this kinda stuff...i guess it's just something to think about.
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