wtf?
So,
John is in fact getting married, to a friend he met at church. It was this friend that pointed out the pattern in his life that allowed him to make the decision to stop being my friend.
I made a small dent in my confrontation, but had to finish the rest by email, which I'm not sure he'll even read. Here now, for your reading pleasure, is that email:
As you chose to sign off MSN at such an opportune moment, I figured I'd finish typing.
Thanks for that, John. Thanks for being what I thought was a good person, and turning out to be only a very shitty one. Clearly our friendship meant very little to you, to be able to toss out 9 years on someone who has decided that I wasn't good enough to be in your life. I'm glad that this happened now, instead of allowing me to waste more time on choosing to hang out with you.
Congrats--you got what you wanted. You'll be finding a new house and a new life in Halifax, just like you always dreamed, and you'll be doing it with your new wife by your side. Funny how things seemed to line up perfectly in order for you to do that.
I hope you're oh so happy, and when/if it fails, I hope you've managed to find someone along the way to help you pick up the pieces, considering that was generally my role, and I've been ousted out as though I mattered very little.
Keep those memories in mind--they will be all you have of me, 'cause I sure as hell won't be around if you ever need me again.
Thank you once again for bringing this lovely fault in your personality to light, and I hope you and the new wife are very happy.
John is in fact getting married, to a friend he met at church. It was this friend that pointed out the pattern in his life that allowed him to make the decision to stop being my friend.
I made a small dent in my confrontation, but had to finish the rest by email, which I'm not sure he'll even read. Here now, for your reading pleasure, is that email:
As you chose to sign off MSN at such an opportune moment, I figured I'd finish typing.
Thanks for that, John. Thanks for being what I thought was a good person, and turning out to be only a very shitty one. Clearly our friendship meant very little to you, to be able to toss out 9 years on someone who has decided that I wasn't good enough to be in your life. I'm glad that this happened now, instead of allowing me to waste more time on choosing to hang out with you.
Congrats--you got what you wanted. You'll be finding a new house and a new life in Halifax, just like you always dreamed, and you'll be doing it with your new wife by your side. Funny how things seemed to line up perfectly in order for you to do that.
I hope you're oh so happy, and when/if it fails, I hope you've managed to find someone along the way to help you pick up the pieces, considering that was generally my role, and I've been ousted out as though I mattered very little.
Keep those memories in mind--they will be all you have of me, 'cause I sure as hell won't be around if you ever need me again.
Thank you once again for bringing this lovely fault in your personality to light, and I hope you and the new wife are very happy.