Compatible or not Compatible
I always heard from friends that it'll be a very good matching if the couple has different personality , it's like mix & match or to compensate on what the other party doesnt have.
Yeah, me , on PMS + stress mood again ... have a little disagreement with him , glad that he's trying to "accomodate" my mood swing and we changed the topic . I also tried not to think to the negative side on one hand. Thus, it's just a little tiff.
However, come to think of the issues , some are always the recurrent ones , is there any ways not to let it happened again ?
There's always a saying that , our real character can't be changed easily .. we can't expect our partner to change because there's their true self and we fall in love with it from the start point. In love, there should be no expectation and everyone is different..
Yes,all these are true but ... no one is perfect , is there a limit for the level of tolerence ? Can you bear with the "bad" character of your partner ? Will you ask him to change for you/himself/society/family ? What if he can't change ? You'll still love him but .. I questioned , what is the limits ? If you choose to leave him, whatif you can't find any new partner ?
Love is just so .. strange ! When I look at my parents , I think they built their marriage on trust and faith so they can maintain it for so long ... however, I realised that its no longer love that keep them together , something is missing..and they still have their quarrels and disagreement most of the time , mom screaming,cursing..and dad kept silence.
Will I end up like this in future ? Will I be able to find someone who's personality is better than him and matches mine & love me for who I am?
Yeah, me , on PMS + stress mood again ... have a little disagreement with him , glad that he's trying to "accomodate" my mood swing and we changed the topic . I also tried not to think to the negative side on one hand. Thus, it's just a little tiff.
However, come to think of the issues , some are always the recurrent ones , is there any ways not to let it happened again ?
There's always a saying that , our real character can't be changed easily .. we can't expect our partner to change because there's their true self and we fall in love with it from the start point. In love, there should be no expectation and everyone is different..
Yes,all these are true but ... no one is perfect , is there a limit for the level of tolerence ? Can you bear with the "bad" character of your partner ? Will you ask him to change for you/himself/society/family ? What if he can't change ? You'll still love him but .. I questioned , what is the limits ? If you choose to leave him, whatif you can't find any new partner ?
Love is just so .. strange ! When I look at my parents , I think they built their marriage on trust and faith so they can maintain it for so long ... however, I realised that its no longer love that keep them together , something is missing..and they still have their quarrels and disagreement most of the time , mom screaming,cursing..and dad kept silence.
Will I end up like this in future ? Will I be able to find someone who's personality is better than him and matches mine & love me for who I am?