Bear with me
Im at work now, and my bodd just threw me a huge stack of papers and im supposed to read through all of them and decide where to file them or throw them out. I wish i can just shred them ALL into pieces. ACK.
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Bear with me while i bitch bout becky, i really cannot stand her mentality any longer. She like 26 and so jaded. Not to say im any more mature or wat so ever, maybe im not, but then, her attitude is really driving me up the walls.
Warning: its really long AND bitchy AND repetivite
ok so what if shes 26 and her biological clock is ticking? i mean HELLO? marraige is a life long commitment, you cant just marry a guy after meeting him online and dating for a month. She hardly even knows the guy, the guy hardly even know him. And seeing the way she treats him, she'll seriously drive him away. And the guy is another one, 32 years old, divorced, still dont learn from his lesson fromt he previous marraige. What wanna go through another divorce? Cant they just wait for a while? i mean if the guys gonna marry you hes gonna marry you regardless how long it takes, provided they are still togather.
AND THEN, she starts asking me all these nonsense questions, do you think becky kao sounds nice? i think he is going to propose to me. i cant wait to elope. *pauses* ELOPE? wtf? if you want to get married, make it a very whats that word, 'tellable' occasion. Why do you want to go behinde peoples back and get married. The thing is she says..oh its so romantic and cheap too!! yeah sure, then tell me why arent you gonna tell your parents bout it? even the guy isnt going to tell his parents?
Then, she goes on and on about oh i want a pink diamond from tiffany, 5 carats. 5 fucking carats, shes not going to be able to lift her tiny little fingers up OK..and from tiffany? thats just being way too materialistic. Oh and did i mention, one of the main reason she wants to marry this guy is for his citizenship too? and the guy has no idea that her ulterior motive.
Then, the next thing that happens is, she suddenly come to me one day and starts bitching bout he ex fiancee, oh i miss him, hes the greatest guy in the world, how am i gonna dump C. now? (and mind you she is still attached to her ex fiancee, and C. doesnt know) And then the next day she tells me, im gonna marry C. Ok make up your mind honey, again i stress marraige is not a game.
Another thing that pisses me off is she NEVER EVER listens to me. I tell her something, it goes in one ear, comes out the other, and makes the mistake i just told her not to do. Example, she wants to have sex. FINE. I told her how to take preventive measures since she didnt want to use protection by counting the days, HAH, smart, dont listen to me, got a missed pregnancy. And NOW, its happening yet AGAIN. ARGH. ANother incident, nearly got date raped. Told her not to go to minne with a guy alone in the same hotel room. Then call me crying, what can i do, sympathize with her? I was so tempted to say I TOLD YOU SO. Tell her not to sleep with a guy on the first day, and there she goes, sleeping with a guy on the first date. Guy dumps her, she come crying. AGAIN. UGH.
The next thing is, i think shes kinda nymph-y. Who shaves thier pubic area in front of a webcam to somebody who doest know her and jacks of at the other end. Who has sex in the car park, under the bright sunlight, under everbody's noses? And she dare come tell me shes got a yeast infection from having too much sex PLUS she loves strip bars.
Ok so back to the current situation, she cant wait to marry the guy. on my side im very VERY skeptical bout her relationship. I think its gonna end a way or another. First of all, i dont that the guy has a very high tolerance rate to tolerate her attitude. She actually went christian bashing in fron od him (hes a christian) he comes calling me bitching bout her. So there. Second, they have very different lifestyles. Third, theres alot of things she doesnt like bout him and basically i think she is just trying to MOLD him into the guy she is looking for. And thats one of the key things that will make a relationship not work. Sitting there and hoping he will change to become what you want him to become. Fourth, they dont trust each other. Fifth, she cant accept that he has an obligation towards his ex wife. And the list goes on. So until they build the solid foundation, i dont think they will go anywhere, regardless if they are married or not. I ask her how can you be so sure? she just says i know. I ask, have you ever felt that a guy was the ONE before, and she says yes. SO? wats the big deal? Dont rush it. She tells me oh so that i can secure him and feel secure, then again, a piece of paper doesnt mean life long commitement. It still can be broken. I aske her what difference does it make with that piece of paper, and she calls me JADED. ME jaded. I think shes the jaded one.
Now , you ask me, why am i so pissed at her, its her life let her live it. Well after all shes a friend, and i care. I dont want her screwing up her life when she stil has her youth. thats y. AHHHH...they are just 2 Really ungrown kids. god knows what they will ende up being.
AND P/S the guy doesnt have a job, just a rich man's kid.
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Bear with me while i bitch bout becky, i really cannot stand her mentality any longer. She like 26 and so jaded. Not to say im any more mature or wat so ever, maybe im not, but then, her attitude is really driving me up the walls.
Warning: its really long AND bitchy AND repetivite
ok so what if shes 26 and her biological clock is ticking? i mean HELLO? marraige is a life long commitment, you cant just marry a guy after meeting him online and dating for a month. She hardly even knows the guy, the guy hardly even know him. And seeing the way she treats him, she'll seriously drive him away. And the guy is another one, 32 years old, divorced, still dont learn from his lesson fromt he previous marraige. What wanna go through another divorce? Cant they just wait for a while? i mean if the guys gonna marry you hes gonna marry you regardless how long it takes, provided they are still togather.
AND THEN, she starts asking me all these nonsense questions, do you think becky kao sounds nice? i think he is going to propose to me. i cant wait to elope. *pauses* ELOPE? wtf? if you want to get married, make it a very whats that word, 'tellable' occasion. Why do you want to go behinde peoples back and get married. The thing is she says..oh its so romantic and cheap too!! yeah sure, then tell me why arent you gonna tell your parents bout it? even the guy isnt going to tell his parents?
Then, she goes on and on about oh i want a pink diamond from tiffany, 5 carats. 5 fucking carats, shes not going to be able to lift her tiny little fingers up OK..and from tiffany? thats just being way too materialistic. Oh and did i mention, one of the main reason she wants to marry this guy is for his citizenship too? and the guy has no idea that her ulterior motive.
Then, the next thing that happens is, she suddenly come to me one day and starts bitching bout he ex fiancee, oh i miss him, hes the greatest guy in the world, how am i gonna dump C. now? (and mind you she is still attached to her ex fiancee, and C. doesnt know) And then the next day she tells me, im gonna marry C. Ok make up your mind honey, again i stress marraige is not a game.
Another thing that pisses me off is she NEVER EVER listens to me. I tell her something, it goes in one ear, comes out the other, and makes the mistake i just told her not to do. Example, she wants to have sex. FINE. I told her how to take preventive measures since she didnt want to use protection by counting the days, HAH, smart, dont listen to me, got a missed pregnancy. And NOW, its happening yet AGAIN. ARGH. ANother incident, nearly got date raped. Told her not to go to minne with a guy alone in the same hotel room. Then call me crying, what can i do, sympathize with her? I was so tempted to say I TOLD YOU SO. Tell her not to sleep with a guy on the first day, and there she goes, sleeping with a guy on the first date. Guy dumps her, she come crying. AGAIN. UGH.
The next thing is, i think shes kinda nymph-y. Who shaves thier pubic area in front of a webcam to somebody who doest know her and jacks of at the other end. Who has sex in the car park, under the bright sunlight, under everbody's noses? And she dare come tell me shes got a yeast infection from having too much sex PLUS she loves strip bars.
Ok so back to the current situation, she cant wait to marry the guy. on my side im very VERY skeptical bout her relationship. I think its gonna end a way or another. First of all, i dont that the guy has a very high tolerance rate to tolerate her attitude. She actually went christian bashing in fron od him (hes a christian) he comes calling me bitching bout her. So there. Second, they have very different lifestyles. Third, theres alot of things she doesnt like bout him and basically i think she is just trying to MOLD him into the guy she is looking for. And thats one of the key things that will make a relationship not work. Sitting there and hoping he will change to become what you want him to become. Fourth, they dont trust each other. Fifth, she cant accept that he has an obligation towards his ex wife. And the list goes on. So until they build the solid foundation, i dont think they will go anywhere, regardless if they are married or not. I ask her how can you be so sure? she just says i know. I ask, have you ever felt that a guy was the ONE before, and she says yes. SO? wats the big deal? Dont rush it. She tells me oh so that i can secure him and feel secure, then again, a piece of paper doesnt mean life long commitement. It still can be broken. I aske her what difference does it make with that piece of paper, and she calls me JADED. ME jaded. I think shes the jaded one.
Now , you ask me, why am i so pissed at her, its her life let her live it. Well after all shes a friend, and i care. I dont want her screwing up her life when she stil has her youth. thats y. AHHHH...they are just 2 Really ungrown kids. god knows what they will ende up being.
AND P/S the guy doesnt have a job, just a rich man's kid.