unresolved issues
did you ever have a problem, especially with a member or members of the opposite sex, that you think about all the time, in hopes that some resolution or clear answer will present itself, but it does not, and so you just have to make a decision, and you wonder if you'll make the wrong choice, and be miserable for the rest of your life, and there is really no one who understands the situation as well as yourself that could offer impartial advice? well if you sympathize then please take a moment and feel sorry for yourself because there's no number you can call, no column you can write, and as for myself, well i think you can see that my mind is currently preoccupied.