What the Dicken pt2
After some thought.........
Why is it that men alway get things wrong, even if they're trying to do the right thing.
I've pissed off so many people (manly friends) over the years cause I believe im doing the right thing and taking the right course of action. I've even lost friends due to this. Some of which were my best friends.
So why is it ( Read more... )
Maybe we just see things in a different way??
Is it the way we say things??
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all of those.
although I would say that communication is the key. If you are worried about a mate, talk to them before deciding to make a decision on their part (i know you would) If you are confused about the way someone said something (tone of voice) whatever, ask them. I know it's easier to say though ;)
I have offended people loads over the years because of my blunt nature, not being mean but saying what I think at the time, I forget that some people are more sensitive to stuff like this than I am and when I try and deal with it it usually comes out wrong.
Basically as long as we are all human we will all offend, annoy or get confused with others at some point. Generally if you are concerned about something it's better to just ask that person what they meant by it rather than try and work it out. You could drive yourself mad trying to breakdown someones thought process.
Hmmm, did I go off subject?...
Bring on the Droids !
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