Jan 02, 2008 22:33
So this is a letter I wrote to people I don't know (though I know it's none of y'all)
Just thought I'd share it because I'm so mad
OK
So Joe just informed that about 1-2 weeks ago a few of his friends said they don't think he should date me. Because apparently I "changed" him. And now he's "less happy".
So this is a letter to all of you. (he didn't tell me your names)
Clearly you have a problem with me, you wouldn't blame this "change" on me if you liked me or knew me. You have no right to judge me. He said all of you were acquaintances. And have met me like 2 or so times. So who the hell are you to judge me. You don't even know me.
Oh, and he said himself that he hasn't changed. And I think he knows himself better than you.
Also, he didn't come to you complaining about me and asking for advice so shut up, it's not your place.
And if he was really unhappy with our relationship, well, I think he's competent enough to be able to dump me on his own. And, oh, look, he hasn't. And it's the longest relationship he's been in. So what does that say to you.
And, no, I'm not fucking controlling him so don't even dare say it.
And if you have a problem with us dating, specifically with me "changing him", tell me now, I would love to hear it.
I'm too mad to try to make this sound better.