Jul 07, 2009 01:02
I really think sex has a lot to do with people's long-term compatibility in a relationship. I never knew what a good sex life was in a relationship until I met Ashley. It wasn't always as good as it is now but we have always gotten along really well in bed, and it's always helped and anchored many aspects of our relationship. I don't know how or what influences this, (trust, love, attraction?) but I know it's certainly not universal, and some people do seem to stay together when they've never had a good sex life. I couldn't imagine that at all anymore. Sex is so integral to sharing and healing for us.
Went on a date with Ashley to Maxime's last night. I really liked what I had although 95% of the dishes contained meat and the pasta had a LOT of celery in it... who cuts up a whole celery stock to put in linguine pomodoro? It was really odd. We had some nice drinks though and Ashley really liked her honey raspberry salad. It was really romantic and the classical decor was great! Best of all the place is well-priced. I liked it and really liked my time with her and I love taking her out, especially to restaurants, although cooking for her means the most to me. I just love spending hours making something really good. It's like feeding someone love.