Words are very unnecessary; they can only do harm.
I'd just like to get this out there.
For one, I am very bad at calling people that I don't call on a regular basis/have them call me on a regular basis. I have this deep rooted fear that I'm going to interrupt something important and piss someone off. I've been like that since I was little and I'm getting a bit better at it, but it's slow going.
And if you haven't talked to me once since I've been to college and haven't expressed any interest in doing so, didn't hang out with me when I did call you when I was home in October, and very pointedly did not invite me to someone's birthday party when you definitely knew I was home, I'm probably not going to call you because I figure you really have no interest in being friends/hanging out.
And if you don't have interest, honestly, that's cool. People change; I'm not going to go cry about it or anything. I just think that if you're going to tell people "Oh, if she wants to hang out, she can call us first" that it's complete bull shit.
That's all.
For one, I am very bad at calling people that I don't call on a regular basis/have them call me on a regular basis. I have this deep rooted fear that I'm going to interrupt something important and piss someone off. I've been like that since I was little and I'm getting a bit better at it, but it's slow going.
And if you haven't talked to me once since I've been to college and haven't expressed any interest in doing so, didn't hang out with me when I did call you when I was home in October, and very pointedly did not invite me to someone's birthday party when you definitely knew I was home, I'm probably not going to call you because I figure you really have no interest in being friends/hanging out.
And if you don't have interest, honestly, that's cool. People change; I'm not going to go cry about it or anything. I just think that if you're going to tell people "Oh, if she wants to hang out, she can call us first" that it's complete bull shit.
That's all.