My Thoughts...

[cissyann]

I really enjoy reading the posts in this community every morning. I have really learned alot about caring for chihuahuas, things to look for and I also love seeing the super cute pics. I have been a little disturbed by some of the bickering that seems to go on lately.
One of the reasons I have followed this site for so long is that there hasn't

Comments

[cissyann]

I went through and read your comments - very mature and reasonable. I again apologize if I proceeded incorrectly in any way and did not want this to end up being divisive. It was my intent to try to bring awareness, but if I had thought about it further I might have realized that that what I say is not going to change the attitude of others and that I need to accept what I can't change and rather show kindness to people who I feel may not be getting it. Previously I was not angry or have anything against any individual people - just concern over the tone. After reading some of the post written directly to me, I have to say I went from dissapointed and frustrated to very angry. I felt personally attacked - which I tried (how successfully?) not to do in my post. I also felt like I was not welcome in this community and was considering leaving the community. I appreciate you pointing out to people the specific things that do come across as hostile or contemptous. Maybe they are not aware of what it is that is being seen as attacking? I am going to take your advice and get off this computer and play with my chihuahua.