married life!

[chickie20]

Well so far we've got one week under our belts...and to be completely honest i can't wait to celebrate our 50th year and more! I love Michael more now then I think i have ever loved anyone in my entire life:D He's the greatest and if he wasn't my husband I might have been willing to share..but even then I likely wouldn't because I have finally got a best friend who will stand beside me for better or for worse and through everything and not leave me to be by myself. I hope that everyone one who knows Michael and I knows that we will always be together and we will always stand up for each other like best friends are supposed to..it's great to say my husband when i refer to him and when asked my name to say MRS FLETT! Hard to believe that over the past 4 and a half years we have been through so much together that has made our love grow so strong. Many people tried to say it wouldn't work out between us due to how far a part we were, but to us the distance only made us stronger. I honestly don't think that we'd be where we are today if we didn't have the distance. Because you see people distance makes for a great relationship in that you become friends first, you learn each other inside and out. Knowing each other so well that you can finish sentences and just know what the other is thinking or going to say next. Then when you finally do get together it makes things so wonderful. Knowing that there is not one thing really that could surprise you about the other person. With Michael and I we drive each other crazy because we always know what the other is thinking or about to say to the fact that we have to tell each other to stop mind reading and stealing thoughts. SO for all of you out there who think that long distance doesn't work...I suggest that you try it and try hard if its something you really want. Because you have to be willing to put the effort out there for things to work. I'm not saying that Michael and I don't argue and such because we do. But what we argue about is the things we have always argued about, silly things that we'll still be arguing about until the day that one of us dies. But that's life, and if you truly love the person you are with and are willing to make it work then all the best to you.

thats all for now! update soon