A note to the vast readership

Jul 31, 2005 13:43

I would just like to say that I stopped reading Veronica's livejournal awhile ago because the slanted, biased, and often misleading or untruthful nature of her posts was causing me so much pain. I chose to lock my pained posts out of respect for her. It has become aparent that she has not had the same care or consideration for me. It has also become aparent that some of you have formed opinions based on her highly biased posts without even bothering to ask me for my side of the story. I did not *do* this to her. She had as much a part in creating this situation and a great deal more part in making the apartment unlivable this summer. I have done all in my power to keep things as comfortable for all involved as possible. I have been nothing if not devoted to trying to preserve friendship and care for other people. Aparently she does not. This situation is everyone's fault and no one's fault. We all entered into it voluntarily, things have turned out in a way that none of us wanted or expected and Veronica's choices and actions affected our coming to this place just as much as anyone elses. She is not a blameless victim in this. She has done her fair share of hurting other people. Had I wanted to, I could have left biased posts about the things she's done that could paint her as a villian, however, I have greater respect for her, you, and myself and have chosen not to do so. Before you judge me, before you decide to take Veronica's word as truth, try asking me how I'm feeling and how the summer's been for me. And before you go making decisions that affect me behind my back, trying talking to me first. I'd tell you that atleast *I* believe that I have some agency, some control over myself, and some effect on my sitiuation. I choose not to make things unlivable, I'd appretiate if others did the same.
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