結婚おめでとう!!!
I’m so happy for Tsuyo! 💒💍
The first day I tried to consume every post about it. How it was on JTV in News Programs and all that Japanese newspapers said about it.
I’m not in shock: it's like someone I really know (like a friend) tells me I’m gonna marry.
Let’s put it in context.
I was first saying things like “jp fans are crazy, they get angry when an idol dates or gets worse when married”, but soon after I realized that type of thinking was spreaded to the whole fandom and not only the JP. So I’m deeply sorry for what I say: just labeling it as a japanese way of thinking. 🙇
Perhaps, it is the other way around. Myself, my culture is different.
In Argentina the “idols” are football players. For the sake of modesty they are ranked the best football players in history.
With all the ups and downs, fans are very critical about their performances. If the match was good or not. Also, with the personal elections (as you know, some football players consume things that he is not supposed to).
At the same time, we are very supportives when they feel down because they lost or maybe when they have an injury.
And yes, not only talented athletes but some of them do modeling tasks too. So ladies from teens to very elderly ones follow them for their beauty, muscles and all of this.
As for fans' relationships, they share with us their health, the family, their relationships, the hard times and the good times too.
For us, it is big news for a wedding. They introduce us to the fortunate lady, being a celeb prior or not, now becomes to the public eye. And tell us and show us the new members of the family, as the daily rutine with his kids.
The different way of thinking I saw it on Nino marriage (when I saw the rage of nino fans)
And the different way of thinking of Aiba’s marriage. Because he never said anything about her. And she wasn’t a celeb.
By the way, I’m happy he is married. But, I’ll be happier if he can share his happiness. What I’m saying is he never says anything about his parenting life, the same as Nino and Sho.
They portrayed married men and fathers, but when it comes to reality it becomes taboo.
I hope, because I’m not in the position of demand, that they can share freely his love, his daily life as a couple and if they decide to start a family with childrens.
And I hope that we (fans) can appreciate, treasure, and celebrate the newlyweds as the new life they begin now.
I will earnestly support Tsuyo and Kanako. I wish them the best happiness. 💑