I just read Trusa's journal and I identify with it. I understand what its like. college does change eveything with relationship, and even the strongest relationships are challenged
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Hey Meg.. if you need to talk at all, just let me know. Andrew and I aren't together right now, but we still love each other, and we're still best friends. I just realized, after having the 8th big fight with him in 3 weeks, that maybe we both needed to experience college life on our own and get it out of our systems. If you and Ted are meant to be, you'll be together no matter what. That's how I feel with Andrew. I know I want to be with him because I feel absolutely empty. But, right now college is causing too much of a strain on committment. If we're meant to be together, our relationship will come to life again. I know it's scary to be having thoughts like that, but it's normal. How many times can we say we've gone to college?! This is our first time really away from home and everything familiar to us. New experiences bring about new thoughts, ideas, feelings, emotions. It's inevitable. What matters is how you deal with these new things. I wasn't able to handle all of this on my plate with a relationship added to the mix, at least, not right now. Like I said, though, if you need to talk about any of this, let me know.
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